whoahman07 Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 I was dating a girl for 2 yea we lived with each other and everything was great. We started having problems fought about things that I did or didn't do as well as trusting me to take care of her. We broke up mutually and remained friends she even viewed me as one of her best friends. After a month of being broken up she saw a girl flirt with me and she got super jealous called me out and said I was doing it on purpose to make her mad which wasn't the case. She started giving me attention again..we started talking again kissing telling me to keep doing what I'm doing and that this is the guy she has wanted all along. I was happy cuz I was being myself and she loved that. Well I went away for a week for vacation and we talked while I was gone for the first couple of days. Then the last 4 days she was distant never really responded just acted weird. When I got back in town I saw her she didn't even act excited to see me. I found out that an old flame messaged her on the same day she became distant. I asked her if we are on 2 different pages and she said yes we are it's becoming overbearing I want to distance myself from you. So I did. I then found out that after she had been talking to this guy for a week she spent the night at his house. I asked her if we could talk and she just texted me back and said I want you to please leave me alone...IDK what to make of this. I am heartbroken that someone that I truly cares about did this and idk where I should go from here
JesRabbit Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 I was dating a girl for 2 yea we lived with each other and everything was great. We started having problems fought about things that I did or didn't do as well as trusting me to take care of her. We broke up mutually and remained friends she even viewed me as one of her best friends. After a month of being broken up she saw a girl flirt with me and she got super jealous called me out and said I was doing it on purpose to make her mad which wasn't the case. She started giving me attention again..we started talking again kissing telling me to keep doing what I'm doing and that this is the guy she has wanted all along. I was happy cuz I was being myself and she loved that. Well I went away for a week for vacation and we talked while I was gone for the first couple of days. Then the last 4 days she was distant never really responded just acted weird. When I got back in town I saw her she didn't even act excited to see me. I found out that an old flame messaged her on the same day she became distant. I asked her if we are on 2 different pages and she said yes we are it's becoming overbearing I want to distance myself from you. So I did. I then found out that after she had been talking to this guy for a week she spent the night at his house. I asked her if we could talk and she just texted me back and said I want you to please leave me alone...IDK what to make of this. I am heartbroken that someone that I truly cares about did this and idk where I should go from here I know how it feels, the best thing to do is to let her be free and go NC. You don't want to seem like the desperate one. It does hurt when someone you shared so much with tells you to leave them alone. The only thing I ca say is that let her be free and if it's meant to be she will find her way back. Karma always brings them back, it's what I've noticed.
Dallers Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 Normally in this instance it will just be a fling, and you should be prepared for her to come crawling back when she gets bored of new piece of meat that is on the scene. It is all about the thrill, but once she gets bored of the thrill she will miss what you two had that is so much more than a quick bit of fun. What you must do is remember how you are feeling RIGHT NOW and walk away and keep walking, because when she comes crawling back you will easily be defeated and give in allowing her back into your life and then she will know she can walk over you whenever she feels like it. Move on and this will strengthen your mind, give in to her when she comes back (which most do) and you will be hurt more in the future. 2
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