Vicente Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 (edited) here's my story. i had a crush on this one girl since we were both in high school. she was perfect in my eyes, straight A's, popular, gorgeous, prom queen. i never made a move, and we drifted apart. 6 years later we cross paths. she ends up chasing me and we both end up in a relationship. she told me she's been single for 5 years, after a string of bad relationships, and it was finally time to share happiness with someone, and she chose me out of all the guys who wanted to be with her. i asked her how she managed to be single all these years, and she told me in college, she joined all these feminism groups and majored in psychology. it taught her how to be this strong independent woman who doesn't need a man. we dated for 8 months and things were great until, she began to lose love. her plan for us was to get married within a year and have kids, but i'm not mature enough to support a family. we're 25 btw. she said she's ready for all that, and she knows i want that it too. i didn't plan on her coming into my life, and wanting to start a family all the sudden. it was all rushed, but i'd to marry her and all that, but just not anytime soon. so she broke up. says we're on different pages in our lives and that one day i'll be the perfect man, because she see's all the potential. i became emotional and would fight her on everything she blamed me for. she told me all those years she spent alone, and working on herself went down the drain, because she wanted our relationship to be the one, her last, wanted us to grow old together. her family and friends say i'm a good man, and that she shouldn't lose me, but she's sad its not working out. told me she can't spend her whole life alone, and adopt a kid, but that was a slap in the face. i'm just so broken, we loved each other so much and she's walking away from something beautiful, because she doesn't want to wait for us to grow, and overcome our differences. it was the right girl, but the wrong time. maybe she'll change her mind about us and come back... i pray to god she does. how do i deal with a woman who is a so called feminist? she doesn't need a man, yet she wanted me? Edited December 8, 2013 by Vicente
BOREDouttaMymind Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 (edited) youre hurting yourself for nothing. youre telling me in the WHOLE WIDE WORLD.. theres NO woman who wants you for your manliness??? oh come on, slap yourself. shes sucking the life force out of you dude. shes using you for her own benefit. suck suck suck. anything left inside you? or are you just a hollow shell of pain? ditch her. <---hoppy thing. Edited December 8, 2013 by BOREDouttaMymind 1
reddragon588 Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 People say things in the moment, but that moment can change. At one point she did want to grow old with you, but unfortunately she changed and no longer wants that. The best example I can think of is that when the football season started, I sincerely believed my 49ers would win the Super Bowl, and it was all I would talk about. Now, I believe the Broncos will win the Super Bowl. It doesn't mean I didn't believe the 49ers would win the Super Bowl back in August, just that I've changed what I believe. 1
Author Vicente Posted December 8, 2013 Author Posted December 8, 2013 People say things in the moment, but that moment can change. At one point she did want to grow old with you, but unfortunately she changed and no longer wants that. The best example I can think of is that when the football season started, I sincerely believed my 49ers would win the Super Bowl, and it was all I would talk about. Now, I believe the Broncos will win the Super Bowl. It doesn't mean I didn't believe the 49ers would win the Super Bowl back in August, just that I've changed what I believe. you're not a true Niner Faithful then. get on that Denver bandwagon then. Crabtree is back, no more excuses and doubts this year. we got this.
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