kiwichick Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 I recently met a guy - first one I have been remotely interested in over a year. I am unsure of his age exactly but he's between 33-37 years. We have been on three dates now, and every time we have had a fantastic time. The last time I felt as though he was opening up to me a bit more also. My problem is I just cant tell if he is interested or not - he has made no move at all to hold my hand, give me a hug - let alone a kiss. He is a self confessed technophob - who barely carries his phone, so I barely hear from him. He does reply to the odd text message here and there, and then I hear nothing for days.. he doesnt even let me know he is out of town? yet we make plans to have another date, he says he enjoys himself, and even showed interest when I mentioned going camping together in the new year. I just cant read him! is he into me or not? Is he just too nice to say so? I have given him plenty of opportunity to say if he isnt.. Am I just over analysing things? What do I do? Do I keep texting etc, as he says he likes to hear from me - but not get a reply and pretend to be ok with that?? so confused.........
d0nnivain Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 He seems interested in person & has already explained that unlike the majority of people he's not attached to his phone You should make some sort of move on your next date.
Author kiwichick Posted December 11, 2013 Author Posted December 11, 2013 How? Was going to try for giving him a hug when he picks me up and try hold his hand when we walk to where we are going is that enough?
d0nnivain Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 I usually initiate either a kiss hello or goodnight in that setting & do something to break the touch barrier.
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