jeremy2125 Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 Well it seems like iv'e hit a brick wall. I'm over my mishap with the fellow classmate, but now there is another and another. I have been through three girls, about to be four, in the the last four weeks. Each one has ended through a range from kissing to full blown intercourse. Yet, not one has attempted to keep in touch. I notice that very same odd "uninterested" behavior in each one and realize they have moved on somewhere else. I think I might have problems keeping someone around. I look back on all of the moments with these girls and can't pinpoint any pattern that seems to drive them away. I guess I just give off a good first impression because they kept chasing until some intimate response happens between me and them. I know when someone fakes arousal and that has not happened to me in a looong time. I just don't know what is going on and I can't ask for advice but perhaps some good commentary could help. P.S. Im not into one night stands. Im genuinely looking for a relationship.
daisydook Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 If you are not into one night stands, stop having them. Stop kissing on the first date. Stop having sex on the first date. Your words and your actions dont match. Enjoy the woman you are on a date with, be sweet, make her laugh, have fun with her........ What kind of ladies are you picking, by the way? I dont mean this in a bad way, but could it be the girls youre picking? How do they act when they are around you? Is it all just sexual? Do you feel anything there for these women? 1
Author jeremy2125 Posted December 8, 2013 Author Posted December 8, 2013 I make sure it doesn't happen the same night i meet her or on a first date. The classmate took about two weeks before I made any move. The other two each three or four days of getting to know. But I guess it doesn't make a difference. One thing they all had in common was that each had kept a steady mindset until I gave into my natural instinct, but they all seemed like enjoyable people that I could settle with. The classmate is very smart and we shared a lot of intellectual ideas since we had related majors, we had study sessions for our math class before things started up, the second was very touchy feely that I could of gotten along with nicely. She knew how to have fun and kept conversations going, she is a virgin though we only ended up making out. The third, which was more touchy, but perhaps the most interesting since she dragged me out to dance two-step at a local texas dance club. Now I enjoy ballroom dancing. It's just that in a day to a couple of days after some physical connection, their minds change.
Author jeremy2125 Posted December 8, 2013 Author Posted December 8, 2013 I've just recently met another, and she got me into rock climbing and she also dances. very funny and goofy personality to say the least.
ShyGuy5 Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 I've just recently met another, and she got me into rock climbing and she also dances. very funny and goofy personality to say the least. Send some of these ladies my way!
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