orioles1744 Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 So Ive been talking to this girl for about 2 weeks now. Ive made post about her but Ill give a little history. She asked me if I wanted to go fishing with her and I said yes we were out until 5 in the morning. I text her on later that week and asked if she wanted to go fishing again that weekend she said yes. we text on thanksgiving and she said she was excited for saturday so we could go fishing. the next day on friday she asked me to come eat lunch at her work because she was bored. when I took her home after fishing on saturday she asked for a hug and told me to text her when I got in the car. I asked if she wanted to go bowling she said yes but she got sick and wanted to stay home which was fine. She said she felt bad but I told her Id rather her get better then get sicker. Today I ran around for over an hour to find something she needed while she was at work she told me I was amazing and thanked me. Her friend pulled me aside and asked if I had a thing for her friend I told her yes and she asked if i told her how i feel I said no she told me I should so she don't think I don't like her like that and that i just want to be friends. Should I tell her how I feel or just let it go? If I should tell her how I feel how should I go about saying it. Any advice will help a lot thanks in advance.
ShyGuy5 Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 Maybe it's time to go in for a kiss. Seems like she is on board if she is asking for a hug. 1
Author orioles1744 Posted December 8, 2013 Author Posted December 8, 2013 Thats what I thought. Im really shy which sucks. my brother in law works with her and he said she's into tall guys and I'm not tall and her friend said I need to tell her how I feel so no one gets hurt so I don't know how she feels.
Author orioles1744 Posted December 8, 2013 Author Posted December 8, 2013 also we were texting last night and I told he my sister would be in there to eat tonight but i would stay at home just joking she said I better be and I say ok ill stay home she said no that would be mean.
ShyGuy5 Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 Thats what I thought. Im really shy which sucks. my brother in law works with her and he said she's into tall guys and I'm not tall and her friend said I need to tell her how I feel so no one gets hurt so I don't know how she feels. First of all your brother in law could be trolling you and second of all height might catch her eye, but it won't make her stay if that makes sense. I know personally Ive thought I was into blondes and then next thing you know brunettes started to catch my eye. I don't know how to go about the kiss, but worst thing is she pulls away. She knows you enough by now that I would assume you wouldn't get slapped or something. This will allow you to show her how you feel because I know it is an awkward thing to bring up.
Author orioles1744 Posted December 8, 2013 Author Posted December 8, 2013 Thats what i thought I think he may not want us to be together because she's kind of his boss. I would be able to hang out with her alone for 2 weeks she's going to a football game tomorrow and leaving to go see her brother for a week so we won't be able to hang out until 2 weekends from now. I know its awkward to bring up the how I feel thing I don't know what to say I think she likes me but not sure.
ShyGuy5 Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 In that case, I do think you need to tell her. If she likes you, then you don't want to let her sit and stew for 2 weeks questioning your intentions.
Author orioles1744 Posted December 8, 2013 Author Posted December 8, 2013 Thats what I was thinking. how should I bring it up? Ive had other girls that are just friends tell me that the things she does that they think she's interested I just don't want to tell her I like her and say she just wants to be friends but who does want to be rejected.
bubbaganoosh Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 I think it's pretty cool that she invited you to go fishing. Never had that happen to me before. Sounds like she has an interest in you and she might be on the shy side too Next time you talk to her, just say, "you know, I kind of like you and doing things with you so I hope we can continue". By saying that you telling her that you like her but not in a way that doesn't sound overly romantic but letting her know that you enjoy her company and would like to spend more time together. Sounds like a nice girl to me. Worth a shot. Who knows, she might feel the same way.
Author orioles1744 Posted December 8, 2013 Author Posted December 8, 2013 I thought it was awesome that she asked me to go fishing and she even likes to hunt. She told me she can't wait until the spring when we can go fishing and its warm. She don't seem shy. Ill tell her something along the lines of what you said.
MalachiX Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 Forget "telling her." You're not in a relationship yet. You've done some platonic things so just ask her out. See if she wants to catch a movie you're interested in or try out a resturaunt you've been wanting to go to. Make it something in the evening and pick her up instead of meeting there. It sounds like she's been essentially asking you out on platonic things in the hope that you would ask her out for real. A big confession of a crush is just going to put un-needed pressure on everything. Asking her out let's her know you're interested and want to see where this goes.
Author orioles1744 Posted December 8, 2013 Author Posted December 8, 2013 Forget "telling her." You're not in a relationship yet. You've done some platonic things so just ask her out. See if she wants to catch a movie you're interested in or try out a resturaunt you've been wanting to go to. Make it something in the evening and pick her up instead of meeting there. It sounds like she's been essentially asking you out on platonic things in the hope that you would ask her out for real. A big confession of a crush is just going to put un-needed pressure on everything. Asking her out let's her know you're interested and want to see where this goes. Thanks man I asked her to go out bowling with me and she said yes but she got really sick so we couldn't go but she kept saying how she really wanted to go. I'm going to ask her again if she wants to go do something
BOREDouttaMymind Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 say whaAAaaaatt? two weeks in an youre going to tell her how you feel?? am I watching The Notebook here? you must be young, and just looking for a gf or something. in that case, tell her how you feel, but the relationship wont last more than 5 months. her friend is wrong and dramatic. and you shouldn't be going all over the place for an HOUR for her. youre painting the picture to her that youre a pushover. "oh look.. I have a new guy friend that will do anything for me" that's what shes going to think if you keep doing that. ya ya, don't believe me. in 5 months, post again saying how she ditched you. keep hanging with her, get to know her, you two sound great together, but youre running this friendship like a 100-meter dash, not a marathon. youre going to get to the end WAYYYY before you should, and the two of you are going to be saying.. '...er... now what do we do??'.. and THAT..will be the end.. of that relationship. <--hoppy white thing
Author orioles1744 Posted December 8, 2013 Author Posted December 8, 2013 say whaAAaaaatt? two weeks in an youre going to tell her how you feel?? am I watching The Notebook here? you must be young, and just looking for a gf or something. in that case, tell her how you feel, but the relationship wont last more than 5 months. her friend is wrong and dramatic. and you shouldn't be going all over the place for an HOUR for her. youre painting the picture to her that youre a pushover. "oh look.. I have a new guy friend that will do anything for me" that's what shes going to think if you keep doing that. ya ya, don't believe me. in 5 months, post again saying how she ditched you. keep hanging with her, get to know her, you two sound great together, but youre running this friendship like a 100-meter dash, not a marathon. youre going to get to the end WAYYYY before you should, and the two of you are going to be saying.. '...er... now what do we do??'.. and THAT..will be the end.. of that relationship. <--hoppy white thing Bored you have a good point. How should I go about this so it will last? I just don't want to get friend zoned and I think her friend said that because the girl wanted to know how I feel. I'm really not looking for a girlfriend it was just random that we started hanging out.
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