zorzzorz Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 Those of you who have broken up due to your exes cheating - did it take you longer to heal or was it much more difficult? It's been nearly a year for me (was a ~4 year relationship), I've made self-improvements, had a year just "for me" and focused on being healthy, making myself happy, my studies, etc. and I still momentarily get really sad over thinking about her cheating/leaving me. A lot of thoughts run through my mind like "I can't believe she did that to me" and I feel hurt still. I feel like this is a sign of not making any progress towards getting over it, but I'm generally a really private person, and it's hard for me to let someone in and trust them like I did her. So I feel very betrayed and hurt that my trust was violated like that and it still bothers me a little, especially these days when it's the holidays and I feel lonely. Any advice? Or do you guys have any experiences with how to get over cheating? Wondering if still feeling hurt by it (even after year) is really abnormal.
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