dc-fan211 Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 I've had a crush on a girl for almost half a year, and I just can't see myself with anyone else. Other girls don't even appeal to me at all. I know I can't get her. Will she haunt me forever? Or will I eventually get over this. The bottom line is: How long can you have a crush on someone before you have no choice but to conclude that it might be more than a crush.
fishy1028 Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 I have had a crush on someone for 4 1/2 years and still going...
kit4kat Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 I've had a crush on someone for 10 months now. Its nothing more... just a simple little crush. It'll go away if I really want to make it, but its nice to slip off into a fantasy world every now and then.
chica Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 The fact that you call it a "crush" says something. And generally speaking, the longer you leave something as it is and fantasise about is, the more weight it seems to hold. You thing they're perfect for you and don't want anyone else, because you haven't gptten close enough to them to understand they're less appealing points. I know I can't get her. why not? Can you put something out there and see? good luck
7on Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 geez crushes.... I went through a "crush" phase when I was killing my porn addiction. Basically any woman I ran into I developed a crush on. It was really really devastating to my being. Anyway, I stopped my crushes by identifying problems I had with them. Like one girl had big eyebrows, another smoked, etc. Though the smoking one is now my FWB, so you get the picture.
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