Sammills Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 I just recently got back with my boyfriend of 4 years, he broke up with me because we fought to much and he said he was not happy anymore and the love is gone. It really took me off guard I'm still madly in love with him. I asked him to give us another shot. Three days later were back together. Now however he says its were on a "probation" period (his idea), not really officially back together but still exclusive. I have been getting some really mixed signals from him one minute he's all over me, cuddling with me, and the next I ask him if i can kiss him and he says he's not ready for it, which is fine he needs a little time. We went out with his two of his other friends to the bar and all had dinner and hung out (he invited me). Today, we had sex (had to ask him a few times), but before we did it I told him that if he does not want to we dont have to and if there are no feelings behind him wanting to then I dont want to do it. He just said come here and we did the dead. However later tonight he wont except me on snapchat because hes not really ready yet. So I flat out told him that if hes willing to have sex with me whats up with him not wanting me to send him a few funny pics through out the day. Im really confused I asked him what was going on with all the mixed signals and he said hes not sure about our relationship and its still in the "probation" stage (which is fine but that was not really an answer) On the snapchat subject a few months back I saw that the top person he was sending pics to was a female coworker (not me), she bitches about her boyfriend to him which I think is extremely inappropriate, but i trust him when he says its all work pics everything was fine but i asked him to set her straight, she continued to send pics to him so he deleted her. After we broke up for a day he deleted me and would not request me back. I asked him why he wont add me back, I then showed him that she is still in his top friends ( he added her back after we broke up ) and asked him if he was not requesting me because he did not want me to see that he is friends with her again and she is in his top again. His mouth flew open and he had no clue i could see that even though im no longer friends with him I explained that I really dont care that hes friends with her I do care however and think its really shady that he is hiding it from me, he said he thought I would freak out. (were both in our 20s) I feel like a child having this conv. with him however it seems very odd to me. You can delete text and phone calls but you cant delete who shows up on your top friends Im very confused and would like any input, am i being silly, should i be worried, how do i get off this "probation" period
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