yorkie Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 right i have been confused ever since my ex left me! 3 n half months, yes i have met someone else and you know what she was a good friend and i have known her for 7 years and we were just really good friends. i am now seeing her when im not having the kids and i feel great! i am not letting my ex confuse me anymore, and im not letting her make me feel guilty! yes its hard as i dont think you ever get over someone you spent over a decade with and you have two children with. i have been through the god and the very bad times with my ex and i have supported her through thick and thin, she was abused when she was younger she had cognigitive behaviour issues also some family deaths i supported her through. i am a full time dad to and i dont get much help from her tbh, and she has alot of time to go out and party whilst i stay home with my kids, she said she is a career woman now lol but then slags me off to everyone saying i stop her seeing the kids but i dont. end of the day even up until this morning i was down and depressed about it. but you know what i have found a real woman who is kind, sensitive, and a caring person, and you know what im happy seeing my new gf. yes im taking it slowly and we see each other nearly every day. and today after putting my side across to the ex's family i feel strong i feel ready as i know i have done everything right! i am now at the point of moving on. my new gf is very understanding and a very good influence on me. and you know what anyone reading this get yourself out and date! meet new people! this will and does help you to move on. yes some people will say its to early for me to see someone else and i have been confused in the past but you know what. i deserved so much better and everyone says it and i am now moving on in the right direction. yes its hard its still hard but! there is light at the end of the tunnel. dont get me wrong i do still love my ex and always will i cant help who i love but also i have choices and i will never ever choose her again. even if tomorrow or right now or next year if the ex came back crawling and tried to move mountains i will never ever except her back and i told her this.and im glad i did because i know deep down she does love me but she broke me. at one point i had a rope around my neck and was willing to end it all. and she still chose her job that is how low i got! so please anyone reading this do not and i mean do not lose hope! things do move on and i have felt better now compared to even when i was with the ex. i realise now that it would never work and ven if i wasnt seeing my new gf. its clicked in my head! i had to really beat myself up to feel this way and i constantly thought about my ex its unhealthy! MOVE ON GUYS trust has gone and that will never ever come back! MOVE ON times will be hard but remember it sound weird and i didnt understand it when other told me but you need to learn to love yourself and i now know im a good guy and i am and have moved on so much.! and one day if yes if she does come back, i will gladly say no and smile as i shut my door! i feel great! 1
JesRabbit Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 Good for you and I am so happy for you. I can't wait until I fully get over my psycho ex because karma will surely come to bite him in the rear end. See, you lost something and got something better.
Recommended Posts