georgieg Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 (edited) I ended up going to a small party with this guy I'm interested in last night, at a mutual friend's house. I was getting a total friend-zone vibe from him at first, but I quickly ramped up the flirting to make it clear I was interested, and we started getting cozier and I got much less of a friend-vibe from him as the night progressed. He ended up very intoxicated (I was driving later, so I was only a little bit buzzed at this point) and we started fooling around a little bit. I was pretty sure it was going to get out of hand very quickly, and that's not what I'm interested in with this guy (I actually like him, and would rather not have it turn into a casual fling/FWB kind of deal). So I put a stop to it. He was a complete gentleman about it, and everything seemed fine. We left shortly after that, had a good/flirty conversation on the drive, he held doors open for me when we stopped at the store on the way back, offered to get me whatever (I declined), and then gave me a big hug when I dropped him off. And we sort of talked about hanging out again. So this morning, everything's pretty hazy for him (not surprising). We chatted for a few minutes on Facebook, and I told him I had fun last night and that we should hang out again. He said it was good times and that I was a champ for driving. I made a few other flirty comments and got some decent responses and smiley faces, but nothing particularly flirty on his end. I'm horrible about over-analyzing things and I tend to get very pessimistic about stuff like this, because I'm awful at reading guys and their intentions. But I'm feeling like he's not that interested, or at least not nearly as interested as I am. And I'm not really sure where to go from here. I guess my plan is to wait and see if he messages me or calls me to hang out again. But I'd like other opinions on it. Maybe I'm being too cynical? Or not cynical enough? ETA: I should add that I mentioned I could refresh his memory on what happened last night any time, and he responded with "Ha!!!!! " Edited December 8, 2013 by georgieg
Author georgieg Posted December 8, 2013 Author Posted December 8, 2013 I'm also wondering what I should do now? I'm guessing wait and see if he messages me or otherwise contacts me? I'm horribly impatient, but at the same time I know I shouldn't try to rush him into anything. I guess I'm just a little terrified I won't hear from him again till this event we're both going to in a couple weeks (which I guess would be a pretty clear sign right there).
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