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Yea, I'm with jan_ma. How many fallacies can be fleshed out of this thread...

(pun intended)

 

  • Cooking is an underhanded, deceptive device designed to recruit women into a man's harem

(says the guy who posted here awhile back because he was struggling to decide whom to continue dating after sleeping with two different women... was contemplating trying out a third if memory serves. Hardly a harem. Tire-kicking, to be sure)

 

Lets not forget the many discussions you've authored or coached other men on how to leave the impression of wanting more than just sex or a FWB. Yes. I remember. Upfront, you are not....

  • Women are so naive that they can't see or resist men's evil ulterior motives

Like I've said many times... they can do whatever they want. Just don't assume a guy asking her over for dinner this early means he's interested in anything more than sex.

  • Accepting food within a residence undermines a woman's ability to make decisions

See above

  • Men who offer to cook (4th date or thereabouts) are either evil or clueless

Experienced men who have a habit of making this suggestion may not be evil... they are certainly uncreative and lazy, IMO.

  • Women who may actually desire intimacy themselves are clueless sluts

Intimacy? you mean sex? Sorry, you can't be 'intimate' with a stranger. You can certainly swap genital fluids though.

  • X-Y-Z presumptions are universally known

Maybe not. That's what LS is for.

  • Men should be the guardians of female virtue

Men should take some care to censor their own behavior if they want a LTR. If they don't, then do whatever you want.

  • Intimacy (on 4th date or whatever) precludes [interest in] a relationship

You mean sex? Yes, having sex with someone who is a stranger often short circuits development of legitimate emotional intimacy.

  • A relationship is the only honorable objective, and a man without that purpose is worse than... short, bald, overweight, asymmetrical, mutant, etc.

Do whatever you want. Just don't claim that inviting a woman over for dinner means anything, nor is it a romantic gesture when offered by an experienced man this early.

 

oh, and Malachaix, give me your address, so I can send you some cookie dough.

 

Since you can't seem to wait for the cookies to get baked or come out of the oven before you 'enjoy' them.

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