Author jinandjuice Posted December 9, 2013 Author Posted December 9, 2013 Glad you had the talk that I suggested. Not sure if you saw that before hand or not. But either way it sounds to me like based on what she said. About falling for people etc and having it end badly. You need to make a move to make this girl feel like she is awesome and that is how you feel really feel about her. Because from what you have said are extremely into this girl. That is one thing about 90% of women I have met. But in my experience what they think is one factor, how they feel seems to be the deciding factor. The "Game" is a bunch of B.S. For a male I will give sports analogy. You watch every team and every player has there own way about them. The important part is understanding the objective and the goal and taking the route in which plays to you skill set and will get you the best result. If it where me. I don't know the exact scope. But this is where I would grab my balls, meet this girl and lay my cards on the table. Tell her you think she is one of the most (if not the most) amazing person you have met. That you think she is completely Awesome then rattle of some personal things you really like about this girl. Tell her that you feel badly if you tried to rush her into anything she wasn't ready for. And if you are truly serious about this girl tell her you absolutely have no problem waiting it out. Essentially "Having you in my life is more important than anything else". You need to make this girl see you in a different light. And understand where you are coming from. I will be honest saying she does not want to talk to you for a while is a bad sign. It took me a while to learn this. But if you are sincere about it and believe it, then if you truly want something in life. At some point you might have to go take it. The situation you have describe separates the boys from the men. She still wants to talk to me. After she had left we texted each other. But yes I do need to make her see me in a different light. I essentially said what you have written but I need to make her realize that I won't be around forever. I need to make her feel and think she needs and wants me. But it will be hard because I won't be seeing her for a while now. Do you think not texting her as of now would have a good or bad effect? Since we wont be seeing each other I was wondering if I should initiate all the texting and talking or ease back trying to create a missing effect.
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