marycc Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 We started dating in August and I broke up with him in September because I was always very insecure about everything (I think it was related with the fact that I got cheated on and psychologically abused on my last relationship). However, while we were apart, I noticed that I missed him so much, and how he had such a great positive impact on my life and we started to talk again later in November. But I'm getting really insecure again and I need to write what's on my mind, even if it sounds silly, that's why I'm here. I'm starting to think that maybe he doesn't really like me because when we started to talk again, he forgave me immediatly and within a couple of days he was already telling me how much he adores me, however, when we were apart he would write things on his blog like "I'm erasing you and I'm happy", or "I don't care about you anymore" or even "F* you". He seemed really hurt and suddenly it's like he forgot everything...I wanted us to get back together, of course, but I was expecting it would take some time. Another thing that has been messing with my mind is that I talk a lot about me, my family, my friends...and he doesn't talk much, like he doesn't trust me. If I was with someone that I could clearly notice that trusted me, I would trust that person aswell (Btw, we met two years ago). And, for example, another "little thing" that I notice is that when I take print screens on facebook to show him something funny or some other thing, I have no problem showing him my inbox (that appears on the left side), however, he always has to crop that part... Maybe he is not hiding anything, maybe it's nothing, but once again, I find this a bit strange because I show him everything, I talk to him about everything and I don't recieve the same from him and I can't figure out why! Anyway...What do you honestly think about this? I want sincere opinions because I don't want to get hurt again. Should I be careful or am I "overreacting"? Thanks
ShyGuy5 Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 Remember that the opposite of love is not hate, but rather indifference. I would say that he is guarded this time because you dropped him so quickly last time and he doesn't want it to happen again. 1
Author marycc Posted December 8, 2013 Author Posted December 8, 2013 Still, I can't understand why he NEVER trusted me like I trust him, even when we were dating in August... I'm just really afraid of being fooled.
c57dood Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 You broke up with him, what do you expect? Some guys don't give women second chances, and I don't blame them one bit.
Author marycc Posted December 8, 2013 Author Posted December 8, 2013 Well, he told me that he wants to be like we used to be before, he constantly tells me he adores me, that's one of the reasons why I don't get this lack of trust...
c57dood Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 Well, he told me that he wants to be like we used to be before, he constantly tells me he adores me, that's one of the reasons why I don't get this lack of trust... What guys say and what they do are very different. He wants it to be like it used to but he doesn't do anything to make that happen. He doesn't trust you with intimate details because you already broke up with him once, what's to say in his mind you won't do it again?
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