Dylan Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 OK...long story short... About three weeks ago, I met this awesome girl. She works at a restaurant that I go to all the time, so I see her often. I would frequently catch her looking at me and making eye contact with me every time I would go in there, so about a week before the holidays, I started talking to her, just to kinda break the ice. I saw her again a couple of days after that and we talked again, and we really hit it off. So, I asked for her number and she gave it to me. Right after that, she told me that she was leaving the next day to go back home for two weeks to celebrate the holidays with her family (we're in Maryland, and she's from Connecticut). I then asked her if she would want to go out sometime when she got back in town, and she enthusiastically said, "Yeah, just call me when I get back....I get back the Monday after New Year's." But later that night, when I was leaving and telling her bye, she said, "I'll call you when I get back in." Just from the few times we've talked, she seems to be interested in me. So, I guess my question is: how long after she gets back in town should I wait before I call her? I definitely know I shouldn't call her the day she gets back, and I also don't want to seem desperate or clingy. I thought about, since she said she would, waiting on her to call, but I have a feeling that that won't happen....so I've decided that I'll call her. So what should I do? How long should I wait? Or should I just go in and see her, face to face?
LucreziaBorgia Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 Call her when she's expecting to be called. You guys agreed on Monday, no?
Author Dylan Posted January 2, 2005 Author Posted January 2, 2005 Originally posted by LucreziaBorgia You guys agreed on Monday, no? Well....not a specific day. That's just when she told me she would be back. Monday is the day she gets back, and she's driving back, so I know she'll be worn out by the time she gets home.
7on Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 haha, this is what I am awful with. My FWB told me to call over break and I called everyother day. I think I annoyed her a bit. Or she is really busy - which I don't doubt for a second. Her mom lacks internet so no AIM and she doesn't keep her cell on her. So I'll call and not hear back for a couple of hours. Realized the reason she goes idle on AIM (her dad has internet) is due to a cell call or watching a movie - because the same thing happens when I'm over at her house when school is in session. The movie will play and then the phone rings and she'll let it ring until the movie is in a boring place.
chica Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 Give her a day or 2 to settle back in. She gave you her number - I'm sure she'll be happy to hear from you
alphamale Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 Originally posted by Dylan So what should I do? How long should I wait? Or should I just go in and see her, face to face? You do nothing for a week after she has been home. If she contacts you during this time that is fine. If she does not call you within this wk of her being home then you call her. And do not go in to see her face to face.
VirginiaBob Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 If you are worrying about "When should I call?" and stuff like that, you already lost.
whichwayisup Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 Don't play games. You wanna talk to her, call her. Who cares who called who first and then get caught up in the 'battle' of I did this and you did that...Sorry alpha but if he really LIKES this girl WHY PLAY hard to get. It is just so stupid... Call her Tuesday, if she is there talk to her, if not just say hey, wanted to give you a day to yourself since I know you just got back into town so when you can call me back. Just GO FOR IT!!!
alphamale Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 Originally posted by whichwayisup ...Sorry alpha but if he really LIKES this girl WHY PLAY hard to get. It is just so stupid... why? because usually if you play easy to get then you get nothing.
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