Ryman Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 (edited) So I went on 3 dates with this girl, the first date was completely fantastic, we connected big time and it was the best first date I've had and she shared that opinion. I wanted to kiss her that night so bad and I made the mistake of following my dumb, no kiss on the first date rule, I know big mistake. The second was good as well and I didn't kiss her again because we went to a party after and she was a little drunk(didnt feel right). Our 3rd however was not great, We were both really tired and when I'm tired I get really negative(normally I'm a huge optimist) and when she's tired she can't take a joke.. So after the hockey game I suggested we go for ice cream to talk, she agreed. I was gonna suggest taking a break from dating until she's done with exams and I'm settled at work(2weeks or so) so we aren't so tired. But she sprung out first and said "I don't really want a thing, right now soo.." I just answered with an OK, I actually took it pretty well lol, and we changed the subject but she started getting super nice and staring at me more(which totally made me feel more comfortable.. ) My question is, were going bowling next week to talk about everything, and tbh we enjoy each others company except that one night.. lol So with how well the first 2 dates went and how much we mutually enjoyed them(she told mutual friends she had a great time) should I just suggest casual dating, no strings attached and just keep it open and see how that goes? Or what do you guys think? This girl is a lot of fun to take out lol Also when explaining how much I did enjoy our first 2 dates, should I let her know I wanted to kiss her, because I'm sure it was mutual at least the first night but prob the second too. Or just leave it out? Thanks guys! Edited December 7, 2013 by Ryman
FitChick Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 Don't analyze or try to define the relationship. I'd just spend time having fun like you did before. Make sure you are both not tired or rushed. Then while you are relaxed and happy, "confess" how you wanted so badly to kiss her on the first date but you have a silly rule which you now regret. See how she reacts. She might say she wanted you to kiss her. If that happens, kiss her! Women expect men to make a move. If they don't we think they aren't that interested. 1
Author Ryman Posted December 8, 2013 Author Posted December 8, 2013 I really like that advice and after thinking it over a bit I think Im going with it pretty much. Thank you!
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