Groovy Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 So I had a date and he cancelled because he met someone last night and is spending the day with her instead. He could have seen her any day. If he made a prior committment with me he could have met with me at least as a friend. I have known him for a year and we talk about how we'll be friends whether or not things are romantic or not. He wanted to see other people, so I figured I would too. But someone he meets gets priority over me at the drop of the moment? I think not. So I said, although it's a faboulous offer to sacrifice my time and energy for someone until something better than me in their eyes comes up, I'll pass. I am not to be enjoyed when you feel like it and discarded when you don't. And a friendship is not about what he wants to do that day with no appreciation for me or value of my time as a "friend", as shocking as the concept may be. I said apology not accepted and have a great life. Dating was brief but our friendship spanned over a year. I am not sad about the romance not working, just sad that he would value our friendship so little and toss it like dust in the wind. I decided to go for a drive and look for a church my friend recommended tonight so I can feel better Sunday and help my spirit that feels tainted in a pile of garbage called life. At least I have not had a family wiped out by a Tsunami. Life is great. I never found the church I was looking for after driving for miles and miles. But noticed many whorish night clubs full of naked people, drunk people with hard ons, bars and plenty of sex shops if I want to be the super slut. If only I could become garbage too then I'd fit in so nicely. Maybe after a few more years of being tainted by the world's offerings.......
dc-fan211 Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 My friend, I commend you for your courage. Unless there's a great reason why he had to cancel on you (i.e. this girl was only in town for 1 day), to me this guy doesn't seem like he deserves you as a friend. I don't mean to preach, but Jesus has pulled me out of a lot of emotional scrapes and churches are always there to help a lost soul. As for the night clubs and whore-houses - you don't need them. The most beautiful girl I know does not wear short skirts or gets drunk at parties. She has a heart of pure gold and in the end, that's the only thing that can make you happy. I'm sure you're beautiful the way you are, so don't give in! The right guy will come around...
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