MRXXXXX Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 So I have been split from my gf for a week and 4 days (feels like a month). I went nc 3 days ago and last night she text me and I replied (hangs head in shame) this is how it went. Her- how are you Me- fine Her- did your meeting go ok? Me- also fine. What's up? Her- forget it! I was just asking Me- I can't do just friends with you Her- why?! It's a good place to start surely Me- start??? Her- as in start to be friends........ Me- I cant, you said you understood. Her- :-( My head is now messed up, where do I go from here?
Author MRXXXXX Posted December 7, 2013 Author Posted December 7, 2013 Should also add that I didn't text back and it's now the morning after
Grumpybutfun Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 Complete NC. If you can't be friends with her, she should respect your decision. Best way to deal is to block her on all media outlets and concentrate on making yourself feel some peace. If you keep letting her into your head, she is going to be living rent free in there and you are going to be paying for it emotionally. Chin up, Grumps
loveiswar101 Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 Gotta agree with Grumps. I know at sometime in the near future I won't be able resist contact mine, I know it will just be tormenting myself. Hopefully when that day comes I can be strong. You need to be strong here bro.
Author MRXXXXX Posted December 7, 2013 Author Posted December 7, 2013 Should I ask her what she means by 'its a good place to start'?
nevergoodenough Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 Should I ask her what she means by 'its a good place to start'? She already defined that in her texts where she says "start to be friends" as in you are friend zoned if you continue this path. What she wrote is pretty clear, I wouldn't do that if I were you.
Author MRXXXXX Posted December 7, 2013 Author Posted December 7, 2013 But could she mean start as friends and see where it goes?
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