What about third chances?

[k0rl0]

So I was able to get my ex back after one time that he couldn't trust me since I hurt him. He had found out I had talked to a guy, didn't even meet up w the guy, but I talked to him through text during a time that me and my ex had a few understandings. However he broke up w me and left but I went back after a couple weeks and hhe accepted me back after being furious with me. It was hard getting his trust back but I did everything I could ever possibly do for someone I fell more in love with. Sometimes he doubted me and questioned but worked it through. Eventually it got to a point where I felt like he just wouldn't understand me. I did it all and gave it all to him!!!!!! I can't even describe how much I loved him. We just began fighting and one day he was mad and said he didn't love me and I felt so hurt and I just went out, I didn't even go out anymore at the time and i just did that night but it was something he didn't like in relationships and he told me that in the beginning but I just went out that night but then picked up on personal hobbies to not feel lonely or sad. I didn't see the going out as anything cuz i wasn't even interested in other guys and it was just to uplift my mood. Later he said he felt like I had done something wrong so he insisted and insisted and I told him I went out and I just told him to understand me and no he said he didn't and he broke up w me cuz he said he couldn't trust me.

 

I feel torn cuz i gave it all to him but he couldn't see it so then I went out one time and BAM!!!! That's when he finds out aand breaks up!!! What we had was glorious! Amazing but I do make mistakes. I'm not great at relationships but I know I love him more than I love myself. I already tried talking to him but he said he don't want me no more. I know many will just bash me out and say to move on blah blah or that it's my fault and yes I know that but gah, I didn't even talk to anyone this time and i feel like it's unfinished business since I was perfect but one argument and suddenly I look like this bad person all over again! For those who believe in love and second and third chances, help! What do I do and say!?!? I worked so hard to get here, so hard and finally we were happy once again....

I invested my all to just lose it all by a lie that I didn't even mean to do harm. I just needed to get out but he sees it as if I killed someone.

:/

[scubasteve]

Trust me I was seeing this girl she ended things due to my disease strike one

She regreted it, I took her back. She was happy then she ended things

Strike two .

I'm sorry but a third chance is a strike 3 and you're out

[k0rl0]

Thanks....

 

 

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[k0rl0]

I was thinking that when you love someone, things can be worked out...

 

I just don't understand how someone can throw away something people work so hard for for so long!!

[Balzac]

Third chance means you seek to be punished. What's that about

 

Move on.

[BC1980]

I think you have to cut it off at some point. A second chance is understandable, but you have to draw the line at a third chance.

[BenC]

He's either super controlling, has major trust issues, or you weren't showing him the reassurance that you wanted him and only him.

 

You probably know which of those three are the most accurate.

 

Ben

[Simon Phoenix]

Yeah, if you've broken up twice, then it's pretty clear that it's not meant to be. Going back for a third chance screams major codependency issues.

[MoooOinkBaaa]

It is a 2nd chance. You've only broken up twice not three times so just make sure you never break up again and you've only broke up twice.

[soccerrprp]

This is the third chance to make things right. Have some respect for yourself and find someone who is stable, confident and reliable. A third chance reeks of emotional dependency.