purplesoccer34 Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 Me and another guy met a couple years ago through a mutual friend, although we never saw each other face to face. This mutual friend recently mentioned to me that this guy would be moving into the same area that I live in. So I facebook messaged the guy online and he responded. His response seemed friendly, so I messaged him back. A month passed by and he hadn't responded, so I messaged him again asking how he liked this area so far. He said he was liking it, and then asked me if I would get dinner with him some time because he's new to the area and wants to make new friends. I agreed, and we went out to dinner. I thought we had a pretty good time. He seemed kind of nervous at first, but otherwise I found that we had a lot in common, and he had a lot of interesting stories to tell. A few days after going to dinner, I texted him saying it was fun and that we should hangout again. He texted me back saying that he agreed it was fun, but that he's pretty busy the next couple of weeks. He said he'd let me know if he was free after those couple of weeks. This all happened a couple of months ago, and I haven't heard from him since. I'm not interested in him that way, but is that what it seemed like? Especially since I was the one who messaged him first. I was just trying to be friends with him. A friend of mine told me to message him again, asking how he's doing and what he's up to, but I think that's a terrible idea.
Emissary Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 Suggesting you hang out again isn't exactly what I would call coming on strong. If you actually want to be friends with him, maybe drop him another line, if not, just let it go, some people just aren't meant to be friends.
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