geelong26 Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 Hi guys new member here. I am really upset about the way things just went with a girl that I had a crush on. I am a really shy guy and their with this beautiful girl who worked at my gym that I would often get signals from to come and talk to her but I would always get to shy. Some of the signs were really strong and I so badly wanted to talk to her. She stopped working at the gym 5 months ago but signed up as a member but has started to come very little. I had still been getting some signs that she was interested . So since I new her name I looked her up on face book and found out that she worked as a hair dresser about 10 minutes away so I went down to make an appointment .She was so friendly and professional towards me and when I said I wanted the appointment to be with her she got a massive smile on her face. So a few days later I go to get my haircut and I get told that another girl is cutting my hair , I thought this is not good but than I looked around and their was 3 hairdressers working and I was the only client and the hairdresser seemed to be trying to sell the place to me but later that night I found out that she blocked me on face book. was that stalking by going down to get a haircut ? I feel really bad about it Thanks for any responses
Grumpybutfun Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 No, it was not stalking, but it appears as though she got the vibe that you were interested in her romantically/physically and she just wasn't into it for whatever reason. I wouldn't put too much thought into it. Stalking is a serious crime and this was nothing like that. G 1
truth_seeker Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 From what you wrote, you did nothing wrong other than pursue a lead. She seems like the type to play games and wants to be in control. Instead of acting on her signals to approach her at the gym, you instead found out where she works now and visited her. She probably felt she lost control and panicked with the Facebook block. Girls like her think too much and over react.
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