Bindi33 Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 If a guy doesn't seem interested in hanging out when you invite him for no other reason except he wants to stay home and not do anything that night, is that legit? Or just hinting that he's not interested anymore? Situation: Went out, both agreed we had a great time, he texted me when he left that night and then also texted me the next day. We practically text all day the next day and even talked about looking forward to hanging out again. But then the day after that I say I'd like to see him again that night, he never actually says no, but hints at it by saying he's staying home and doing nothing that night. Also, all of a sudden he's not keeping a conversation going like he usually does.
truth_seeker Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 He either lost interest or he has another girl.
Author Bindi33 Posted December 7, 2013 Author Posted December 7, 2013 Lost interest in less than 24 hours? 1
truth_seeker Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 If he went from hot to cold I would think he lost interest in you altogether or there is another woman he is involved with...
Author Bindi33 Posted December 7, 2013 Author Posted December 7, 2013 I actually just heard from him again and he said that he's 'getting pretty anxious for his final exams and hasn't been thinking of much else.' But that he'd 'be back to normal after monday.. hopefully.'
truth_seeker Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 Hmm... could be telling the truth or he's got another girl he's messing with this weekend. I'm not trying to screw with your head, just putting the possibilities out there.
Author Bindi33 Posted December 7, 2013 Author Posted December 7, 2013 I'm definitely not going to make a move again, under no circumstances. It's up to him now. But, it does make me feel better to know if he really does like me or not.
Author Bindi33 Posted December 7, 2013 Author Posted December 7, 2013 I hate playing the waiting game. I don't like being in the dark about what's going on
mortensorchid Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 You can only be in the dark for so long before it all becomes clear, if that makes sense. Hope he contacts you again. If not, move on.
daisydook Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 Lost interest in less than 24 hours? Some people do. They are always looking for something/one better.
TB Rhine Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 I hate playing the waiting game. I don't like being in the dark about what's going on. Welcome to being a man in the dating world. I agree that he's either lost interest or has someone else at the house. Or, and this is a distinct possibility... he was trying to get you to invite yourself over to his house. He's looking to get frisky, and doesn't feel like taking you out on five or ten more dinner dates before possibly getting dumped with no return on his investment. Seriously, invite yourself over and see what he says; if he says no, he's either SUPER not interested (like, almost to the level of being freaked out by you or something) or he's got someone else.
Khyla Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 I actually just heard from him again and he said that he's 'getting pretty anxious for his final exams and hasn't been thinking of much else.' But that he'd 'be back to normal after monday.. hopefully.' That sounds totally plausible. I wouldn't fret it. Monday isnt that far off! Pick this back up after that.
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