dannyw19 Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 Ok so I know this is a really vague title but this is a serious question and would really like some input on this. About 3 weeks ago I went to Prom with this girl I kinda like. Before we went we never really talked much except for the "hey" once and a while when we crossed each other in school. Anyway during prom it seemed like she had a good time and seemed like everything went well and posted a picture afterward saying she had fun and all that. The next day and following week or so, we haven't really talked a whole lot. However about a week ago we texted for probably 3 hours one night, and again seemed like she enjoyed being texted and seemed to try and keep our convo going. During school we still don't talk much and during class it seems like ill see her looking over a few times trying not to make eye contact. She doesn't seem to talk to many guys and there is this one guy she talks to quite a bit when she sees him. When she sees me she doesn't really acknowledge it unless ill say something first or something funny and she will laugh, but she will do that for others as well. She makes a point to talk to this one guy quite often but never really has to me. I feel like its because she knows him better than she does me and they talk more than I do to her. Anytime we do talk it seems like she gets happy but its hard to read her. I am not sure if she is just afraid for some reason to talk to me first or if she really doesn't want to or doesn't like me. By what I've written here does it seem like she is interested and just is afraid to talk to me first or is she not interested at all? Thanks, Danny
tlegend Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 Ok so I know this is a really vague title but this is a serious question and would really like some input on this. About 3 weeks ago I went to Prom with this girl I kinda like. Before we went we never really talked much except for the "hey" once and a while when we crossed each other in school. Anyway during prom it seemed like she had a good time and seemed like everything went well and posted a picture afterward saying she had fun and all that. The next day and following week or so, we haven't really talked a whole lot. However about a week ago we texted for probably 3 hours one night, and again seemed like she enjoyed being texted and seemed to try and keep our convo going. During school we still don't talk much and during class it seems like ill see her looking over a few times trying not to make eye contact. She doesn't seem to talk to many guys and there is this one guy she talks to quite a bit when she sees him. When she sees me she doesn't really acknowledge it unless ill say something first or something funny and she will laugh, but she will do that for others as well. She makes a point to talk to this one guy quite often but never really has to me. I feel like its because she knows him better than she does me and they talk more than I do to her. Anytime we do talk it seems like she gets happy but its hard to read her. I am not sure if she is just afraid for some reason to talk to me first or if she really doesn't want to or doesn't like me. By what I've written here does it seem like she is interested and just is afraid to talk to me first or is she not interested at all? Thanks, Danny I think she is interested in something, hence why she continues to have conversation with you. However, is that a romantic interest? Have you asked her out on a date? Has she done anything that would make you think she would say no? Just because she is talking to a friend doesn't mean she picked him over you. And their "talking" could quite literally be her spilling the beans about liking you and wondering when you would get the hint and ask her out. Just saying....thats one perspective...
Author dannyw19 Posted December 7, 2013 Author Posted December 7, 2013 I think she is interested in something, hence why she continues to have conversation with you. However, is that a romantic interest? Have you asked her out on a date? Has she done anything that would make you think she would say no? Just because she is talking to a friend doesn't mean she picked him over you. And their "talking" could quite literally be her spilling the beans about liking you and wondering when you would get the hint and ask her out. Just saying....thats one perspective... So heres the thing, last year we had a class and talked quite a bit, we talked about going to do something after school but never ended up doing it. Ive never been on a date with her except the prom if you consider that a date. I'm not sure if she "likes" the guy she talks to or if she feels comfortable around him, and feels intimidated by me for some reason, but always seems happy when we do talk. I hear them talking in one of our classes off and on, and I know he doesn't like her, just not sure if she is trying to get my attention or not. I feel like when we texted for so long she enjoyed it, but not sure because she has never texted again. Any input?
tlegend Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 So heres the thing, last year we had a class and talked quite a bit, we talked about going to do something after school but never ended up doing it. Ive never been on a date with her except the prom if you consider that a date. I'm not sure if she "likes" the guy she talks to or if she feels comfortable around him, and feels intimidated by me for some reason, but always seems happy when we do talk. I hear them talking in one of our classes off and on, and I know he doesn't like her, just not sure if she is trying to get my attention or not. I feel like when we texted for so long she enjoyed it, but not sure because she has never texted again. Any input? I think you should ask her a feeler question or two about how she would feel going out on a legitimate date with you. I must say, I'm a bit older (closer to 30...different generation) and a bit more direct with what I want. If I like someone, I go after it. You should try that approach =) Just be careful to try and not ruin the friendship you have if in fact, you are trying to keep it if she doesn't feel the same about you. 1
Author dannyw19 Posted December 7, 2013 Author Posted December 7, 2013 I think you should ask her a feeler question or two about how she would feel going out on a legitimate date with you. I must say, I'm a bit older (closer to 30...different generation) and a bit more direct with what I want. If I like someone, I go after it. You should try that approach =) Just be careful to try and not ruin the friendship you have if in fact, you are trying to keep it if she doesn't feel the same about you. Thank you!
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