Babolat Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 It's the concept of finality for him. It's the concept that if he is in a real relationship that he is somehow shackled and not allowed to hit on someone if he wants, and that he's having a minor mid-life crisis where he thinks his youth and freedom will all be over soon, so he better take advantage of 25 year old girls still hitting on him while he can before he's old and undesirable. He literally tells himself that because he's 37 he's only got a couple years left where he's "capable" of being promiscious and getting random girls before he's expected to just settle down. ? Man here, 47, and I have more opportunities now than I did at 37, so you can toss that crap from him out the door. And, recently, I had sex with a 29 year old for over a month, and a 28 year old showed interest in me prior to that. And now, one of my 33 year old female friends is showing interest. So, he ains't gonna lose anything, but you! All of your replies are justifying his actions & behaviors and desires; been there, done that, with my ex gf. So, I know how you feel.
Phantom888 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 What is so attractive about an cowardly, selfish, 37-year-old man-child??? He wants all the benefits of a relationship, but does not want to invest any time and energy to let things develop. Yes there are men like this, and they will die alone, as they deserve.
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