Author FortunateSon Posted December 17, 2013 Author Posted December 17, 2013 Thank you for your reply, Caitlin. I feel like I am misinterpreting her reaching out to me as more than it really is. I want to contact her and put everything on the table to see if she wants to reconcile. I feel like whatever answer she gives me will give me peace of mind going forward and make it easier to keep moving on? Is this a good idea?
BC1980 Posted December 17, 2013 Posted December 17, 2013 Thank you for your reply, Caitlin. I feel like I am misinterpreting her reaching out to me as more than it really is. I want to contact her and put everything on the table to see if she wants to reconcile. I feel like whatever answer she gives me will give me peace of mind going forward and make it easier to keep moving on? Is this a good idea? You both seem pretty unstable with your emotions, which is understandable after a 6 year relationship. Because you keep maintaining contact, you kept getting drug down into an emotional spiral. You need much more NC before you can be objective. She is all over the place with her emails, and your responses are fueling her. In turn, you feel terrible. NC protects you from the insanity. I would not communicate with her further. I would love to tell my ex what a sh$tty person he is, but I'm not going to give in.
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