Blue_Barbie Posted December 6, 2013 Posted December 6, 2013 My ex and I broke up about 2 months ago ( we are lesbians ) though she was the first girl I've dated, she's been homosexual since 3rd grade. We fell very fast for each other. Everything happened so fast. She left me like about three times and lied saying she still had feelings for her ex that's why we can't be but she eventually told me the real reason why and its because she wants to get her life right with God. This is sooo hard for the both of us as we really want to be together. We agreed to being friends coz that's what we were before we dated, but you know its like not working coz we always fighting over petty things. She blocked me on whatsapp like two times & I always talked her back! Because l love her & don't want to lose her. I had her mother on facebook and she found out. She's extremely mad at me for that, told me she has no words for me & should stay away from her so she blocked me again. I'm not handling this well. I go to bed crying and I wake up crying , I sometimes feel suicidal. I get the impression that she now hates me because the last time she was mad at me she said I should remember that there is a thin line between love and hate ( says a lot ). This is not only affecting me emotionally but physically as well. Please help!!!
Philosoraptor Posted December 6, 2013 Posted December 6, 2013 Suicide is not the answer, I will start with that. You'll hurt everyone you know by taking that path. Sad to hear, but someone who is serious about you doesn't dump you on multiple occasions. You need to do what is best for you right now and that is to stay away from her so that you can heal. It takes awhile, but if you fill your life with family, friends, hobbies, and other enjoyable activities you will find that the path to healing is much easier.
Simplysimon Posted December 6, 2013 Posted December 6, 2013 My ex and I broke up about 2 months ago ( we are lesbians ) though she was the first girl I've dated, she's been homosexual since 3rd grade. We fell very fast for each other. Everything happened so fast. She left me like about three times and lied saying she still had feelings for her ex that's why we can't be but she eventually told me the real reason why and its because she wants to get her life right with God. This is sooo hard for the both of us as we really want to be together. We agreed to being friends coz that's what we were before we dated, but you know its like not working coz we always fighting over petty things. She blocked me on whatsapp like two times & I always talked her back! Because l love her & don't want to lose her. I had her mother on facebook and she found out. She's extremely mad at me for that, told me she has no words for me & should stay away from her so she blocked me again. I'm not handling this well. I go to bed crying and I wake up crying , I sometimes feel suicidal. I get the impression that she now hates me because the last time she was mad at me she said I should remember that there is a thin line between love and hate ( says a lot ). This is not only affecting me emotionally but physically as well. Please help!!! Hello, Sorry to hear about your issues if it helps we are all in the same situation that's why we are here irrespective of the fact it's a same sex relationship or not. It still hurts the same. The suicidal emotion will wear off just stick with it. People who are deeply in love will move mountains to maintain each other's affection. I think she's finding excuses. Are you sure she's not seeing her ex still? So what can you do? Well loves a gift and can only be given not forced or taken. If it was me I would stick with the rules. Completely ignore her. Do not contact her mother, her friends or anyone. Drop off the face of the earth. If she wants you she will come looking if not she wasn't for you anyway. Get out there and meet someone else. Get busy. In 1 month it will be easier but going no contact is hard. Push through it and see what happens but don't stop living. Dump your phone as you will spend all day waiting for a call. The call will come but not until your over her. It's how it works. Keep posting...thinking of you x
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