HeartbrokenNewbie Posted December 6, 2013 Posted December 6, 2013 So my last post was wondering if my ex was 'testing the water' by asking by text for what I felt were silly items that he could have sorted himself, he even then tried to call the next day. I honestly did believe this was a testing the water exercise as I really could not believe anyone would have the audacity to ask for those things when he walked out of mine and my childs life without warning and never even said goodbye, left us in a financial mess and quite broken to be honest.. I also found it very bizarre that as he has a new GF he would even want any correspondence with me, add to that the last message from me to him over a month ago before I implemented NC was not very pleasant at all... not sure why he would have even wanted to hear my voice. Anyway this obviously just brought back the 'hope' and then I started looking for clues checking FB etc which I had stopped doing! That then just lead to heartbreak all over again when i see he then changes his profile pic to a new one of him and his GF (he wouldnt do this if I was on his mind!) just broke me all over again... Im so angry he would have even asked for that stuff after everything... all I can say is thank god I did not reply... sad but thats all I can hold on to. I have stopped checking again and have now blocked him from texting and calling... I did post the stuff he asked for with some other bits I found too but never acknowledged the request nor told him I would post it I hope that comes across as a big F-OFF! I guess that last bit of hope died & I really cant believe the man I thought i would marry could be such an A hole :-( I feel like an idiot for even thinking t was testing the water! How can u rear your head in someones life after all that asking for things u could sort yourself... wow I picked a rotten one! Time to move on xx
Philosoraptor Posted December 6, 2013 Posted December 6, 2013 He is taking selfish actions and his current rebound has him all over the place emotionally. Do not allow yourself to be a safe place to land when he gets all worked up emotionally. He dug this hole and he has to live in it. No need to allow yourself to be drug down too.
Author HeartbrokenNewbie Posted December 6, 2013 Author Posted December 6, 2013 Thank you just would appear more to me that he is just an inconsiderate, selfish, nasty person that has no remorse or understanding of what he has done x Dont think it has anything to do with me, his rebound or anything emotional... he's just a class 1 utter ***** :-( x
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