Zeroes Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 This is why I don't do online dating. I score six, possibly seven on your **** list. It's much easier to deceive in real life, luckily. Er, which parts do you have issues with then? And actually it applies to both real life and online. It's easier to (initially) deceive online.
somedude81 Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 (edited) Wow, it's insane how easy OLD is for the right people. Are you sure this guy isn't dating anybody else? Guys who are this good with women and who move this fast, usually get around... Edited December 10, 2013 by somedude81
Ruby Slippers Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 Awww, I am very happy for you And it's good to hear that you're trying to keep your wits about you. Very smart!
Els Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 There's nothing wrong at all with seeing him two nights in a row, IMO, as long as all the ducks appear to be in a row. I'd caution you not to give him your heart so early on, but you're a smart girl and you already know that. Exclusivity is fine if you're not a multi-dating sort of person anyway - it doesn't necessarily imply investment or commitment. Enjoy yourself, let things develop naturally, and don't worry. If it works out in the long term, great! If not, you had some fun. Win-win.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 Guys who are this good with women and who move this fast, usually get around... In this case, I don't think it is somebody being "this good with women..." it's just the cold, hard truth that Phoe is rather hot... and the vast swath of males out there, who would take immediate interest, dwarfs that of most who would tend to be reviewing the in's and out's of O.L.D. Plus, she's a tad better than most at making herself vulnerable (and I'm not talking about dark alleys late at night)... so her instincts probably have her expressing herself from the very start. 1
veggirl Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 Holy cow asking for exclusivity on date 2. I guess that's a by-product of OLD culture....if you find someone you like, you feel like you need to lock them down lest they are hunting for others. That's actually kind of sad. Enjoy phoe. I'd have just told him I only date one person at a time and left it at that, which sounds like what you did. I'm happy for you too You don't need to go at a turtles pace...just a normal one, lol. 2
BreakOnThrough Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 "Don't move too fast, when you want your love to last..." ~ The Doors
FitChick Posted December 10, 2013 Posted December 10, 2013 Don't see him everyday. It's the holiday season so you have excuses like you have to help your sister decorate her tree or do Christmas shopping or feed the homeless. You don't want him to get tired of you so soon, you want to keep him wanting more.
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