justmeal84 Posted December 6, 2013 Posted December 6, 2013 Ok so Me and my ex have been split for 2 weeks. She never took down any of our lovey dubby or any picture what so ever of us off of FB. I know she actually is talking to another guy that lives over a hr away but im not worried about him because he is well pathetic.. I messaged her last night though telling her to take down all the pictures of me and her on fb after 2 weeks of nc. She got very mad saying no I like those pictures they are good memories. I told her I know about the other guy she said says its just a friend, but not to sure if i believe her BS. Anyways she went on to saying she has thought about calling me many times but doesnt want to do more harm. She also said we both care about eachother and i stalk you fb all the time i cant help it. Moving on I told her that i wanted the chanceto forget all the stupid mistakes we made in our relaionship and start over. She went on to to say if we do anything we just need to talk again and be friends I cant start seeing you again right away. I told her i dont want that im not taking the risk. So we decided on writing eachother, like actual letters and start completely over. My thing is we are starting from scratch...I dont want to freak her out and make an emotional letter just light and fun. But obviously i want to rekindle our spark. the reason we broke up plain and simple is we moved in together after 3 weeks. Skipped all the fun stuff and turned into husband and wife. She also had 2 boys living with us who is loved dearly. But things got boring we didnt have fun together it got stale. I broke it off we came back together for a week and she broke it off. Really want advice on how to write this letter keep the pressure off and give it my best bet to do the dating we should have done the first time.
letsplaygofish2 Posted December 7, 2013 Posted December 7, 2013 Hmm.. writing letters? I guess you could just write about the new things that you're discovering, new activities, hobbies etc. Think of it like writing to a pen pal over seas. You're not going to talk about emotions or the past, but rather you're going to just share your day from a light hearted perspective Dear XYZ, I went on a bike trip today, it was really fun. I saw all the leaves changing color, it made me realize how beautiful nature is.... I'm looking forward to a painting class tomorrow. Apparently the instructor is from a Paris. I love baguettes! Anyway, hope you're having a good time too. You.
Author justmeal84 Posted December 7, 2013 Author Posted December 7, 2013 thanks people. i actually took my time and wrote her as it was the first time I talked to her when we met online. basically just reintroducing myself since we agrred we have no past its like we are meeting for the first time. Sending tmrw ill let you know how it goes.
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