lifeunderground Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 I've been working at this job for about 4 months When I first started I thought I was in love with my coworker since the first day I saw him he seemed into me too (acted nervous and looked at me a lot ect ) I got his number and texted him but got no response and added him on fb He continued acting interested and accepted my request a few weeks later I chatted with him on fb and we spoke briefly but after that things got weird . Out of nowhere he became rude and would make ******* comments so I stopped liking him and began to resent him. He ended up deleting me on Facebook too I have not been rude to this guy so idk wtf his problem was. Then out of nowhere he's become extremely nice and helpful and always friendly This has been within the past month or so. He always says hi and bye to me and chats with me. he complements me on my work ethic , laughs at all my jokes Talks about his family and life He's even sold weed to me twice outside of work. He seems like he likes me so I'm confused I know coworkers are a baddd idea so I'm refraining myself. But it's just confusing, anyone have some insight?
LivingDeadGrl Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 Personality disorder much? I wouldn't waste my time. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 I've been working at this job for about 4 months When I first started I thought I was in love with my coworker since the first day I saw him he seemed into me too (acted nervous and looked at me a lot ect ) I got his number and texted him but got no response and added him on fb He continued acting interested and accepted my request a few weeks later I chatted with him on fb and we spoke briefly but after that things got weird . Out of nowhere he became rude and would make ******* comments so I stopped liking him and began to resent him. He ended up deleting me on Facebook too I have not been rude to this guy so idk wtf his problem was. Then out of nowhere he's become extremely nice and helpful and always friendly This has been within the past month or so. He always says hi and bye to me and chats with me. he complements me on my work ethic , laughs at all my jokes Talks about his family and life He's even sold weed to me twice outside of work. He seems like he likes me so I'm confused I know coworkers are a baddd idea so I'm refraining myself. But it's just confusing, anyone have some insight? Wow. What a Romeo! Seriously. With these types of mood swings, are you sure he's not into anything stronger? Red flag in any case. RUN from the ultra-moody and disrespectful ones. Re-read your post. You say you texted and got no response. Then he continued acting interested? That doesn't make sense. If he were interested, he would have responded. Honestly, I don't get the sense from you post that he's actually all that interested. I think he likes playing games with you. 1
emva07 Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 I don't get the feeling he's interested either. Playing games. Hustling for that weed money son! 1
Author lifeunderground Posted December 5, 2013 Author Posted December 5, 2013 Wow. What a Romeo! Seriously. With these types of mood swings, are you sure he's not into anything stronger? Red flag in any case. RUN from the ultra-moody and disrespectful ones. Re-read your post. You say you texted and got no response. Then he continued acting interested? That doesn't make sense. If he were interested, he would have responded. Honestly, I don't get the sense from you post that he's actually all that interested. I think he likes playing games with you. Lol the past behavior is really just background info the past month is just confusing I'm not saying it's romantic haha but it is an outside of work event And yeah he told me he does drugs now and then. I'm just wondering if he is into me now that's all
Author lifeunderground Posted December 5, 2013 Author Posted December 5, 2013 I don't get the feeling he's interested either. Playing games. Hustling for that weed money son! Haha but he would've sold me weed from the getgo All of a sudden he texts me asking if I need weed?
ExpatInItaly Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 Lol the past behavior is really just background info the past month is just confusing I'm not saying it's romantic haha but it is an outside of work event And yeah he told me he does drugs now and then. I'm just wondering if he is into me now that's all But it's relevant. He isn't stable. From what you described, it doesn't sound as though he ever really was interested. I don't think he's interested now either. He sounds warped and you'd be wise to stay away. I'd let this one go, OP. 1
Author lifeunderground Posted December 5, 2013 Author Posted December 5, 2013 If it's relevant over fb chat in the beginning he told me to hit him up if I needed weed and I actually did but he was "out" months later he hits me up about the weed
Author lifeunderground Posted December 5, 2013 Author Posted December 5, 2013 But it's relevant. He isn't stable. From what you described, it doesn't sound as though he ever really was interested. I don't think he's interested now either. He sounds warped and you'd be wise to stay away. I'd let this one go, OP. I get what you're saying I'm not making moves trust me It's just he's so nice and overly friendly lately
Author lifeunderground Posted December 5, 2013 Author Posted December 5, 2013 Personality disorder much? I wouldn't waste my time. Yeah he's got issues that's forsure
Author lifeunderground Posted December 5, 2013 Author Posted December 5, 2013 It's easy for you guys to say he's not into me but his behavior suggests otherwise I hated this guy for a while too it's not like I wanted this to Happen
emva07 Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 It's easy for you guys to say he's not into me but his behavior suggests otherwise Actually his behavior suggests exactly that....
Author lifeunderground Posted December 5, 2013 Author Posted December 5, 2013 Actually his behavior suggests exactly that.... Haha okay then lol This past month I'm talking about NOT the past Nothing this past month suggests he's not interested I only gave a breif summary too.
ExpatInItaly Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 Haha okay then lol This past month I'm talking about NOT the past Nothing this past month suggests he's not interested I only gave a breif summary too. Enlighten us. What else can you add that would clarify his interest?
emva07 Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 what kind of things does he say to you to make you feel interested? Talking about his personal life, laughing at your jokes and being nice doesn't mean he likes you. 1
Author lifeunderground Posted December 5, 2013 Author Posted December 5, 2013 . He always stares at me, uses a different flirty tone of voice than with any coworker. Picks up after me, is super polite and even nervous Says "excuse me,thank you, and please" says "wow you are killin it"(At my job) goes out of his way to say bye it's hard to explain maybe I shouldve left out the past info cause now everyone is so set on he doesn't like me. It's confusing But trust me I refuse to make a move
emva07 Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 . But trust me I refuse to make a move Then all you can do is wait for him to make one.
Author lifeunderground Posted December 5, 2013 Author Posted December 5, 2013 Then all you can do is wait for him to make one. Haha yeah but he does seem like he has issues I really just want to hookup more than anything
henderson14 Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 "He even sold weed to me twice outside of work." LOL! Loveshack quote of the week. That sounds like a man in lovre! 1
emva07 Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 so ask him "hey, wanna hook up?" just as bluntly as he asked you about the weed.
Author lifeunderground Posted December 5, 2013 Author Posted December 5, 2013 Haha seems like people just want to slam people on here. I'm not saying he's in love but my coworkers do not associate outside work We did smoke and talk for a good 30 minutes All I'm saying is I've noticed interest as of lately I don't expect people to get it but it's just really confusing
Author lifeunderground Posted December 5, 2013 Author Posted December 5, 2013 so ask him "hey, wanna hook up?" just as bluntly as he asked you about the weed. Haha if I am wrong though it'd be awkward
emva07 Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 Haha if I am wrong though it'd be awkward wrong about what? hooking up isn't about strong feelings or whatnot, you two seem interested enough. It's a yes or no question, nothing awkward about it. 1
Author lifeunderground Posted December 5, 2013 Author Posted December 5, 2013 (edited) wrong about what? hooking up isn't about strong feelings or whatnot, you two seem interested enough. I know I figured that much most guys will hookup with just about anyone Not to be conceited but I am attractive I just don't know what made him rude and then delete me and now nice lol I also am not sure about hooking up with someone I work with all the time I did have feelings for this guy and do not want to catch them again Not to mention if he is not down he could gossip at work about it Edited December 5, 2013 by lifeunderground
emva07 Posted December 6, 2013 Posted December 6, 2013 I know I figured that much most guys will hookup with just about anyone Not to be conceited but I am attractive I just don't know what made him rude and then delete me and now nice lol I also am not sure about hooking up with someone I work with all the time I did have feelings for this guy and do not want to catch them again Not to mention if he is not down he could gossip at work about it All very true points. Esp the gossip one.
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