Holster1 Posted January 1, 2005 Posted January 1, 2005 Theres a girl at work, weve been out a few times before and ive been to her house to watch dvds and stuff, she knows how i feel about her and im sure she likes me too from the signals im getting from her, such as the smiling at me all the time and when she talks to me she wont look directly at me and when we make eye contact she go all shy, but the other night she txt my mate wishing him a happy new year and he txt back saying "maybe in 2005 youll find out how much he likes you?" she txt him straight back saying "i already know how much he likes me but he knows it aint gonna happen were just good friends like i said i never mix business with pleasure", from this im getting that she dont want any rumours starting at work so by tellin him that were mates thats how everyone will see us? earlier that same day i was at her house and she introduced me to her daughter for the first time and we all got playing a game and stuff, which is quite a big step isnt it? so it seems like she wants me to be more involved with her or at least take things slow but at work for us to be mates? I dont know what to do i really do care about her so much, im thinkin of just coming out with it and saying look where are we? if she says just friends then i can move on but at least ill know either way and not get hurt later?
HokeyReligions Posted January 4, 2005 Posted January 4, 2005 Originally posted by Holster1 im thinkin of just coming out with it and saying look where are we? if she says just friends then i can move on but at least ill know either way and not get hurt later? Stop thinking about it and do it. You won't know unless you ask.
Merin Posted January 4, 2005 Posted January 4, 2005 Hmm.. Well honestly I think it was unset for her to text your mate back the message that she knows you're all about her AND to follow up with how it isn't going to happen.. Not cool.. It would be one thing IF the guy she had text was a Co-worker ONLY to the both of you.. but he isn't.. he is a FRIEND.. so IMO she was telling HER friend that she isn't all about being anything more than friends with YOU and.. I could be wrong here but uh.. I wonder if she has an interest in your mate? I agree with Hokey.. be straight up with her here.. ask her where this is going. Good Luck
Holster1 Posted January 6, 2005 Posted January 6, 2005 Ok then i asked her outright and she says to me that we are just good friends, the day after we were at work and we actually got on better than we had done before as friends, still alot of flirting going on and stuff so she knows im still interested in her and i guess she still likes me but i just think its bad timing on her part really with dealing with stuff still going on in her life at home from her ex cos he still torments her, all ive got to do is just take a step back and not think about her too much, when shes ready then i guess ill know for sure.
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