The New Year bring in new ideas's and everything else new will follow to.

[theone44]

I know we all here on this forum went thru a bad break-up in the year 2004,but now it's time to let go of the past and go for something new in the New Year. Let stop hanging on to the past,because sooner or later it will destroy you.

 

Here is a powerful scripture from the bible,spoken by one of God greatest apostle "Paul" """""""Brethren(men and women) I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do,forgetting those things which are behind,and reaching forth unto those things which are before"""""""""""Philippians 3:13

 

I know this scripture is speaking on a spiritual level,but if you look at this passive from an earthly or physical level too. it also mean people need to leave the pass behind them, and reach for better things that is set before them.

That also mean we need to let go of past gf and bf. the one that made us feel like crap. Why hold on to the pain,misery,and heart-ache someone have cause you,and bring it into the "New Year". The past is the past and future is the future.

 

 

Signs to look for when searching for a mate:

 

1.Does him or her have an high interest level of love in you.

 

2. Does him or her have a good attitude

 

3. Does him or her a giver

 

4. Are they available

 

5. do they show signs of interest

 

6. is their personality and character good

 

7. are they honest

 

8. is the relationship 50/50

 

9. Are they really your best friend.

 

10. do they have your back,when things get tough.

 

If a man or woman (even your ex) are doing the opposite of these. then they weren't good for you from the start.

 

I found out when a man dump a woman,basically see will take him back. it depend on what happen. When a woman dump a man it is kind of hard for him to get her back.

 

Let go of the pass. i promise you will get a better future. Ladies and gentlemen,let us not go out like punk or punkalett in the year 2004. If your ex do want you back make sure they not coming back to you with that same old 2004 attitude

 

 

"Happy New Year"

[indigo_moon]

Good post!

Yes, let's all make 2005 a new beginning - learn from the past and move forward and not be willing to settle for less.