brokeNlost Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 So I won't go into much detail into my relationship. I dated this girl for 4.5 years and was planning on marrying her however, she decided to break it up with me so I told her never to text or call me again. It's been exactly 9 days of NC and she texted and called me several times last night saying she want her stuff back... Is this her excuse to try to contact me or do she really want her stuff back?
nevergoodenough Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 Have someone drop it off at her house and you will find out. It doesn't sound like a game though "give me my stuff back" is that really code for "I love you and I want (you) my stuff back" ? If you guys are broken up, and not speaking, logic says she should have her stuff.
strive Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 Don't read too much into it. She really likely just want her stuff back. 1
Author brokeNlost Posted December 5, 2013 Author Posted December 5, 2013 Yea but she the type of girl who like to play mind games with me. Plus in the past 2 weeks since the BU she met and dated someone else but still send me mixed messages which was why I initialized NC. Also, I had offered to giver her back her stuff before but she didn't want it.
nevergoodenough Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 Do you want to be with someone that is with someone else and playing games with you? Stop it. I once had an ex that would tell me how much she loved me, wanted to marry me, how we were going to have kids together, how she would kill herself if we broke up and all of this. Turns out, she had another bf and she was having sex with her ex. I broke up with her and she would call me every day and text me throughout the night asking me to fight for her and telling me she just wanted to be with me. She would call me while she was at his house and have heartfelt convos with me and then try and make me feel bad by texting me text convos with her friends talking about the guy. She would call me and get upset if I was with my friends and ask me to fight for her. Eventually, I decided it wasn't worth it and stop picking up her calls. After that, she gave up pretty quickly. My point is, this may not be headed down the path you want, just stop now. She is hurting you and you are hurting you. Put the stuff on her door and leave or have someone drop it to her and be done with it. The longer you linger, the worse you make this. I promise you. 1
Chi townD Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 Yea but she the type of girl who like to play mind games with me. Plus in the past 2 weeks since the BU she met and dated someone else but still send me mixed messages which was why I initialized NC. Also, I had offered to giver her back her stuff before but she didn't want it. Then don't give her the option to play games, box up ALL of her stuff and send it in the mail or have a friend drop it off at her place. Simple! In the mean time, block her on Facebook, keep on ignoring all of her texts and phonecalls. Don't talk to her. 2
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