crederer Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 Ran into the ex today. She was looking as beautiful as ever. But knowing that it will never be again i wish I never even met her. It's hard for me to see her. Even still, we've been broken up almost as long as we've been together. I still feel as though we just broke up. I don't know if I'll ever come out of it. I think of her ALL The effing time still. I feel like a total idiot. I've gained a lot of weight since we broke up, and I didn't shower today, I look like a total fat slob and she looked as good as ever. I guess I'm not exactly looking for advice, just feeling like an idiot and wish I could turn the clock back a few months. Just venting, thanks for listening.
Robbyrob Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 Ran into the ex today. She was looking as beautiful as ever. But knowing that it will never be again i wish I never even met her. It's hard for me to see her. Even still, we've been broken up almost as long as we've been together. I still feel as though we just broke up. I don't know if I'll ever come out of it. I think of her ALL The effing time still. I feel like a total idiot. I've gained a lot of weight since we broke up, and I didn't shower today, I look like a total fat slob and she looked as good as ever. I guess I'm not exactly looking for advice, just feeling like an idiot and wish I could turn the clock back a few months. Just venting, thanks for listening. its time for you to feel confident and happy yourself. 1.) love yourself 2.) work-out to feel better 3.) go out with other girls 4.) stay NC with your ex 5.) get distraction, meet friends, do some weekend trips Believe me: Once she bumps into you after a couple of months, she will be surprised what has changed. Keep your head up.
Author crederer Posted December 5, 2013 Author Posted December 5, 2013 I was going on dates with girls for quite a while. I was the villiage slut, to be perfectly honest. It wasn't a good thing for me. But the rest of what you're saying is true.
Logan oO Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 its time for you to feel confident and happy yourself. 1.) love yourself 2.) work-out to feel better 3.) go out with other girls 4.) stay NC with your ex 5.) get distraction, meet friends, do some weekend trips Believe me: *Once she bumps into you after a couple of months, she will be surprised what has changed. Keep your head up. * - I know you are saying that for him to better himself, but you know as well as i do, when you feel attached to someone still, that kind of thing makes you think 'oh she'd want me back if i looked hot too!! ' No! You don't want someone back who would give up on you Crederer! Ok 1) Yes, before you can expect ANYONE to love you or want you, YOU have to LOVE who you are, and not feel like some piece of trash discarded along the highway / motorway. 2) Working out just isn't a thing for me personally, my piece of **** ex was always at the gym, so i couldn't find the motivation for that. A lot of people seem to find it helps though, as working out does release endorphin's that make you feel 'happier' (same as when people comfort eat) it's chemicals in your brain 3) Yes i completely agree, this doesn't just mean women you want to sleep with, this means female friends / acquaintances, you'd be surprised how uplifting it can be just being around other women and having a laugh. 4) Agreed - NC is the ONLY way for you and everyone on here to heal, that 'need' to get a 'fix' to talk to them, doesn't make them want you, and nor does NC, but NC is about YOU taking YOU back from the dead relationship. 5) Yeah, i'm going out for a christmas meal with some girl mates and a few guys, i'm at a house gathering with the same circle of friends for new years at the moment, so it's ideal to have things to look forward to. All in all, Nice List Robbyrob
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