Dating ex gf from 15 years ago. How do you treat the early stages of redating?

[blooms2]

I dated her for 1 month and then we became gf/bf after that for 1 more month in 9th grade.

We were so young we couldnt get out much we lived in different towns nearby. We were not able to meet each on dates that much because of no transportation. We talked on the phone alot and we kissed a couple times. She ended up wanting to take a break with me and I never talked to her again.

 

15 years later we hung out as friends and had good chemistry.

 

I sense she likes me and she told me she wants to chill with with me at alot of places in the future. She has called me and texted me alot after the 1st hangout we had.

 

Do I treat the early dating stages to her like she was never my GF? Or can I move a little faster with her since she was my ex GF and I do know somewhat of her.

 

What I mean by early dating stages is that normally you would take some time to getting to know alot about that person and just hang out every now and then and take it slow as friends and pace yourself and let it develop. But we did this along time ago

Edited December 5, 2013 by blooms2

[nomadic_butterfly]

I dated her for 1 month and then we became gf/bf after that for 1 more month in 9th grade.

We were so young we couldnt get out much we lived in different towns nearby. We were not able to meet each on dates that much because of no transportation. We talked on the phone alot and we kissed a couple times. She ended up wanting to take a break with me and I never talked to her again.

 

15 years later we hung out as friends and had good chemistry.

 

I sense she likes me and she told me she wants to chill with with me at alot of places in the future. She has called me and texted me alot after the 1st hangout we had.

 

Do I treat the early dating stages to her like she was never my GF? Or can I move a little faster with her since she was my ex GF and I do know somewhat of her.

 

What I mean by early dating stages is that normally you would take some time to getting to know alot about that person and just hang out every now and then and take it slow as friends and pace yourself and let it develop. But we did this along time ago

 

You guys were kids before; it doesn't count! Start anew! All the best

[blooms2]

Thanks, I feel like I can start the early stages of redating her quicker than someone that I never knew. We practically talked on the phone everyday for a long periods of time when we went out.

[d0nnivain]

You pretend it's a brand new relationship. 15 years later the only bearing 9th grade has on this is you can asked about previous classmates if there is a lull in the conversation.