JDPT Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 It's amazing what listening to a few songs that I should have kept away from can do to you. I feel calm with the slightest sensation of giving her a piece of me. I don't know if I miss her anymore, I guess this is a good sign. Perhaps I should switch to listening to something else. Truth is there is not turning back and I know this, I've known this. I just at times like to indulge in the past. 1
MoooOinkBaaa Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 I know what you mean. I've been listening to heavy bass trance songs really loud with my headphones and it's put me in a good mood. I avoid a lot of songs like the plague right now. I think our exes will indulge in the past too but they think they still hold the power and can sail along thinking we still want them back. My ex wrote on twitter after 2.5 months "i still miss you, i still miss being together but i'm never getting back with you" So arrogant of her to think she is able to just walk back in my life. I could of moved well on for all she knows. She loves to play the victim.
LostConfused123 Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 I know what you mean. I've been listening to heavy bass trance songs really loud with my headphones and it's put me in a good mood. I avoid a lot of songs like the plague right now. I think our exes will indulge in the past too but they think they still hold the power and can sail along thinking we still want them back. My ex wrote on twitter after 2.5 months "i still miss you, i still miss being together but i'm never getting back with you" So arrogant of her to think she is able to just walk back in my life. I could of moved well on for all she knows. She loves to play the victim. Wow!! That is arrogant of her! I mean Damn!!! After two and a half months, you could very well have moved on and met an awesome woman! It's inevitable, that will happen and hope it's soon for you. Best of luck!! I am nowhere near being able to listen to music "like a normal person" LOL! I'm a music junkie usually but the last 6 weeks I have been listening to country music. . . Not my usual and ironically doesn't make me think of him (not his usual either) I guess that's why. The music thing is so powerful! Oh and Christmas music. . . can't do it!!! Way too . . . maybe next year 4
headinthecloud Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 (edited) IMO, listening to love songs and watching romantic movies are a big NO-NO when recovering from a BU because they usually force you to relive good experiences with the ex which reminds you of the pain of the reality youre now facing - that person no longer wants you in their life. Avoid things that remind you of your ex, if you can. Almost everything will but romantic movies and songs are guaranteed to keep you from moving on, if you let them. Over time, you will stop being constantly reminded of your ex...but it takes work and time. You've been doing great, JD. Edited December 5, 2013 by headinthecloud 2
MoooOinkBaaa Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 Yeah she must think I'm still on the floor moping for her! I'm not even sure I want another chance with her. She loves to play the victim on twitter she even posted this. Once you've been hurt, you're so scared to get attached again. You have this fear that everyone you like is gonna break your heart. When I read that I just burst out laughing, she is the one who dumped me and told me we grew apart and she has new friends and wants to find herself! Yeah I made some mistakes and wasn't there for her in the last couple months but I think I'm still worth one more try. She says on Twitter how she hasn't exactly wasted 7 years but had 7 years of relationship experience and now knows how NOT to relationship. I laughed at that too because it doesn't take seven years to learn that, lmao you don't stay with someone 7 years if it's a terrible relationship. If that's how she feels than good luck to her I'll find someone who actually appreciates me. Yeah music is a big thing for me too. I don't usually listen to dance/trance but it's just fun fun music with no emotional **** attached. I hate it when you go shopping and they play break up songs. They do it just to make you feel **** so you start emotional comfort shopping!
Haydn Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 [spot on mate. Hits sometimes quite hard. Dont listen to any Morrissey ok? QUOTE=JDPT;5383601]It's amazing what listening to a few songs that I should have kept away from can do to you. I feel calm with the slightest sensation of giving her a piece of me. I don't know if I miss her anymore, I guess this is a good sign. Perhaps I should switch to listening to something else. Truth is there is not turning back and I know this, I've known this. I just at times like to indulge in the past.
Author JDPT Posted December 5, 2013 Author Posted December 5, 2013 [spot on mate. Hits sometimes quite hard. Dont listen to any Morrissey ok? QUOTE=JDPT;5383601]It's amazing what listening to a few songs that I should have kept away from can do to you. I feel calm with the slightest sensation of giving her a piece of me. I don't know if I miss her anymore, I guess this is a good sign. Perhaps I should switch to listening to something else. Truth is there is not turning back and I know this, I've known this. I just at times like to indulge in the past. Absolutely, staying away from that type of music, I asked for it and got it. Today thankfully is a better day. 1
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