drg2365 Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 I posted about the party/sad aftermath a few weeks ago, but disregard that longer post, that situation has come and gone. I'll just do a recap. Ok so I'm a senior that is graduating in a week. Two weeks from now I'm moving 8 hours away from where me and this girl go to school. So I've been a lifelong failure with women. I'm a 22 year old virgin, I've managed to never have even kiss a girl that went to my college (but I have had a few -not many- smooches in my time, even during college, but the distinction of never having done so at a school of 20k+ haunts me). I met this girl in class at the beginning of the semester. We hit it off and got to know each other. I asked her out and we went out and had a fun time, but she was aloof/but accepting of a second and it took a little bit of time. Started to reveal a far more active social life than me, and a mutual date got mutually cancelled at one point (both had family issues). Well I got the second date, and we actually went to a basketball game on campus, her first game ever, and we had an awesome time. I never made a move on her that night, but I never really found a good moment, and she didn't seem to really give me a good sign, but who knows, we had a lot of fun anyways. We kept talking. A few weeks later I actually attended her birthday party the day my uncle died (he lived far away, couldn't fly back for the funeral a several days after, logistics). But the party got really huge and eventually I couldn't stay and left. She inquired about why I left early a day later, and I told her the truth, and she felt really bad and we spent some time together later that day. Well, I'm about to graduate and will only see her two more times max. Would it be weird if I after class or whatever and we talk that I told her that the time we spent together meant a lot to me and ask for a goodbye/good luck kiss? The time together meant a lot to me, she was a very cute, funny, sociable girl, I never got to know many during my 4.5 years at college. Much less have a some good times together with them. I know definitely not to allude to my shortcomings over the past, and I won't. But I still want to have one last kiss before its all over. Is this weird? Sorry for the long story, thanks in advance
Author drg2365 Posted December 5, 2013 Author Posted December 5, 2013 Bump? Is it really that weird and/or pathetic?
FanJieLi Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 Personally I think that's adorable and not weird at all (and I'm a woman btw, if that matters). Go ahead and ask her! The worst thing that can happen is that she'll say no.
stillafool Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 Would it be weird to give this girl a kiss? I'll never see her again soon... Absolutely! Especially if you never see her again. (Providing she doesn't have a herpe on her lip.).
Author drg2365 Posted December 9, 2013 Author Posted December 9, 2013 Absolutely! Especially if you never see her again. (Providing she doesn't have a herpe on her lip.). Absolutely its weird? Personally I think that's adorable and not weird at all (and I'm a woman btw, if that matters). Go ahead and ask her! The worst thing that can happen is that she'll say no. Thanks, I feel sort of weird for thinking this/wanting to do this. Our final exam is on Tuesday and she agreed to grab a bite after, I said I've been going to all the places in our college town one last time. After, maybe during I was just thinking of telling her that even though we did a lot of casual stuff, it meant a lot to me. It genuinely did, I went some up and downs with really crappy downs over the semester. Getting to know her and spend time with her was definitely part of the 'ups'. Maybe some other ideas? She seems to care about me and it seems like I wasn't aggressive enough earlier on as far as a potential dating relationship goes. I'm not going express some bizzare love story or expect for anything more than a quick kiss. Is this too soppy/dramatic of a thing to do/say, or even overall? That's not my intention, just kind of want her to know
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