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Giving a second chance, but does not want to make it work


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Well my boyfriend and I broke up after 4 years i begged him to give us one chance and he agreed to, after thinking about it for 3 days. He gave me a chance because I have given him many chances before so he said it only seemed fair.(we did not cheat) Now I'm confused i asked him if he was doing this cuz he was pitying me he said no, I asked him if he was doing this just because he "owes me one" he said no, I asked him if he wants to give us a chance and he said he does not think i can change (i was not being affectionate and rude). He said he does not want to rush in to things and have me fall more in love with him, and than brake my heart again if the spark cant come back. I'm still in love with him he said he was not in love with me. What do i do? What do you think will happen? What would you do?

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If your behavior caused this you can change your behavior. How hard can it be to stop being rude to someone you claim to love? How hard is it to be affectionate?

 

It seems to me if you are affectionate & nice to him, the spark may come back. He most likely fell out of love because he wasn't getting TLC & romance from you. Give him some.

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