FalconsGUY Posted January 1, 2005 Posted January 1, 2005 To anyone who will help, i am a 16 year old guy. i just met this girl and we have been friends for a couple weeks. When we are together we are fine. But that is not the problem when i am on the phone with her i just cant seem to do well. There is just always silence. It seems like if i ask her questions i just seem like an investgator. what are some other things we can talk about any help please
Barby Posted January 1, 2005 Posted January 1, 2005 Well how about favorite music, interests, things she likes in a guy, umm what you like to do in your spare time, school, what you want to do in the future, hopes, dreams, ambitions? Just some ideas...Good Luck!
reid Posted January 1, 2005 Posted January 1, 2005 Geez, that sounds like my situation a few months back. I dont know what to tell you cause I still have problems talking to her over the phone, in fact, sometimes she doesnt even listen.... She will go "huh, what did you say" So I just dont talk for along time on the phone with her, usually just ask if I can come over or to do something on this day. Funny thing is, SHE gave me her cell phone#! i just dont get.. Just wanted to let you know, youre not alone! Btw did she give you her #? If she did, then she likes you but shes nervous, but if you asked for it then she might not be interested yet. Hang in there.
Author FalconsGUY Posted January 1, 2005 Author Posted January 1, 2005 Heres a huge question to anyone what are women thinking what do you want from guys who are your boyfriends or that time when you have just become friends and you know you like eachother but want to stay friends for a while to get to know eachother what do u want to talk about what are the standards and how do u make desions on when to move forward???????
whichwayisup Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 I think the more honest you are, more open and tell her how you feel the better things will be down the road. Don't play games. Most women do not like that guessing game, does he or doesn't he like me just as guys don't really enjoy that either when it comes right down to it. Ask stuff about her, childhood, funny stories, interests and things in the present going on in each of your lives. Be friends, cuddle and if there is a strong chemistry there, something WILL happen...It always does. Good luck!!
whichwayisup Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 Sounds like you are shy on the phone. Tell her that too, don't hold back and be upfront and honest. Does she ask you questions too? Think of afew fun stories to share with her, childhood memories etc...Common interests etc. Good luck!
7on Posted January 5, 2005 Posted January 5, 2005 Originally posted by whichwayisup I think the more honest you are, more open and tell her how you feel the better things will be down the road. Don't play games. Most women do not like that guessing game, does he or doesn't he like me just as guys don't really enjoy that either when it comes right down to it. Ask stuff about her, childhood, funny stories, interests and things in the present going on in each of your lives. Be friends, cuddle and if there is a strong chemistry there, something WILL happen...It always does. Good luck!! hmmmm, interesting... this has helped me out a bunch.
SuperFantastico Posted January 15, 2005 Posted January 15, 2005 You know what. I suck on the phone. I always have. If i can see thier body language i just cant seem to strike up a conversation properly. Just make plans to see her over the phone. Then talk her ear off in person. Much nicer when you can see,smell, touch, feel, hear her. Then just hear
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