stingray115 Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 I met this girl through a friend. She was showing her friends on fb and thought i was cute so we started talking and we never actually met cause she goes to college a few hours from here. Anyways we've been talking for nearly a year and she's been going off and on with her boyfriend the whole time, she never told me because she was afraid i wouldn't like her. We got into a huge fight a few months back and she said really mean stuff i came back to say sorry for what i had done on my part cause i was not 100% right and we made up and started talking again. She thanked me for putting up her. We connected better than before and i made her smile and laugh and be happy.. she was still stuck between us but even told me i would make the best bf for her so i planned a nice vacation date for us and was planing on asking her out then but she suddenly just stopped talking and i found out she's back with her ex and all they do is fight. She told me she was sorry and that she was wrong. I know she has feelings for me but obviously loves this guy more. I think they are each others first loves..But we got along so well..and when her ex wasn't in the picture we we're perfect. I told her i respected her relationship but i wish i could of had a chance..will she ever regret her decision?
BOREDouttaMymind Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 looks like you found a girl who believes in the 'nice guys finish last' crap.
WhiteButton Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 Bro i am not sure when you found out that she is seening her ex, but that would have been it for me - i would bail out right there. This is also LDR so dude any guy that she meets localy and get her going will get her priority over you. To her you are just some nice guy that she talks to when she is bored and has nothing else to do to kill time. Sorry to say it maybe i am harsh, but that is how i would interpret her actions if i were in your shoes.
Author stingray115 Posted December 4, 2013 Author Posted December 4, 2013 We we're talking at the beginning of this year, and at that point her ex was trying to get her back and she picked me over him apparently, Shes indecisive as hell. I just have this hope that she'll stop being so blind and see that we can go great together. I think maybe she's immature, shes only 19 but maybe i have too much faith that she will change.
soccerrprp Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 I met this girl through a friend. She was showing her friends on fb and thought i was cute so we started talking and we never actually met cause she goes to college a few hours from here. Anyways we've been talking for nearly a year... This thread is a NO-STARTER! You have never met her. You don't have a relationship with her. Her ex did and does. How in the world can you think that you're better than her ex??????
Author stingray115 Posted December 4, 2013 Author Posted December 4, 2013 No where in their did i say i was better. No where in their did i say i was in a relationship with her. I don't know the guy. But if your always fighting with your partner and always breaking up over and over again, you would think that you would give the guy that is making you smile a chance.
soccerrprp Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 stingray, okay, i stand corrected, but there can be no chance if you don't even meet.
Author stingray115 Posted December 4, 2013 Author Posted December 4, 2013 Exactly, That's what's bugging me is i never got that chance, we have so much in common and we just talk and talk for hours on hours about anything and we connect in that sorta way. At first she said yes to the date but then backed out cause she started dating her ex again..i know she likes me and thinks we would go great together but i guess she loves this guy and cant let go..which sucks. I can't help but hope she looks back and see's what we could of had..
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