mtnbiker3000 Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 I just want a girl that only sleep with her boyfriends. No rebounds, no one night stands, not a slut who sleeps around... Hahahahaha... Good one 1
organizedchaos Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 I just want a girl that only sleep with her boyfriends. No rebounds, no one night stands, not a slut who sleeps around... Good luck with that. 1
Simon Phoenix Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 Not sure how much I buy into this, but it's been said that men can have emotionless sex while women have a much harder time with this... In general this is true. Obviously it's not an across-the-board thing, but this is 100 percent correct. Most men see sex as a physical release while most women see sex as a spiritual bonding mechanism. Personally, I didn't care less if my ex was having sex with someone else right after the break because to me, sex is sex. Plus, I went through a run of sex (which didn't help) after my break to try to mask my pain. The stuff that would bother me much more than her getting it on is her having a long walk on the beach with another guy, going wine-tasting, telling inside jokes. That's the stuff IMO that bonds people, not the wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am nature of sex. I don't expect everyone, or most, to share this view, but that's where I come from. 3
Simon Phoenix Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 I just want a girl that only sleep with her boyfriends. No rebounds, no one night stands, not a slut who sleeps around... This might be the group for you. Amish - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia 3
Haydn Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 I love this Simon, you have such a sardonic sense of humour. Keeps me honest! This might be the group for you. Amish - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia 2
Author Vinsanity1307 Posted December 6, 2013 Author Posted December 6, 2013 This might be the group for you. Amish - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Thats really not cool....I am more than 100% sure that there are girls and guys out there that feel the same way as greenflower does....and are not Amish....Its a personal choice and belief and a value...Why would you make fun of that???...I am the same way...Slutting around girl or guy is disgusting..Something I would never do...Its an opinion..If whoever wants to go do it..power to them but not something I would do or look for in a women....
Simon Phoenix Posted December 6, 2013 Posted December 6, 2013 Thats really not cool....I am more than 100% sure that there are girls and guys out there that feel the same way as greenflower does....and are not Amish....Its a personal choice and belief and a value...Why would you make fun of that???...I am the same way...Slutting around girl or guy is disgusting..Something I would never do...Its an opinion..If whoever wants to go do it..power to them but not something I would do or look for in a women.... Oh lighten up Francis, it was a joke. 3
Simon Phoenix Posted December 6, 2013 Posted December 6, 2013 Either way, since your ex has, or almost certainly will, hook up with some else, use this mindset to starting moving forward instead of being stuck on loop like you have been. If she's done something inexcusable by your values, then stop obsessing about something that is over and can't be fixed. Use it as fuel to move forward and find someone that has similar values. 2
Author Vinsanity1307 Posted December 6, 2013 Author Posted December 6, 2013 Well seeing most people here are vulnerable and emotional ya think making fun of someones values or beliefs is the way to go?????? Food for thought......And as for me nothing would make me happier than to do that...Again im stuck and in a loop and am having trouble letting go...I know you know..everyone knows..Clearly i dont deal with heartbreak well as others
Author Vinsanity1307 Posted December 6, 2013 Author Posted December 6, 2013 I understand everyone has a past...Everyone! my point to this all that kinda got off track was your ex leaves you then goes and does whatever after and comes to realize they want you . Is a no no in my book..They think they can do better and to realize they cant thats selfish and lazy...thats what my point was I was justifying and making a point that there is no reconciliation with me and my ex. I accept that and thats what it is.. Just stuck in the nostalgia and the hurt..make sense?
reddragon588 Posted December 6, 2013 Posted December 6, 2013 They think they can do better and to realize they cant thats selfish and lazy...thats what my point was I was justifying and making a point that there is no reconciliation with me and my ex. I accept that and thats what it is.. Wow this is a huge step! This is a moment of acceptance from you! Take this realization and build on it! You see- you ARE moving forward, you just have to realize it! Take victories in small moments like this and focus on the positive rather than the negative! Moving on may or may not come all at once- for you (and me too) it comes in small bits and pieces. So recognize those small bits and pieces and be happy for them!
Simon Phoenix Posted December 6, 2013 Posted December 6, 2013 Well seeing most people here are vulnerable and emotional ya think making fun of someones values or beliefs is the way to go?????? Food for thought......And as for me nothing would make me happier than to do that...Again im stuck and in a loop and am having trouble letting go...I know you know..everyone knows..Clearly i dont deal with heartbreak well as others I don't need food for thought. You need to lighten up and realize that life isn't one big bummer. Heartbreak sucks, but being an oversensitive stick in the mud isn't a solution to it. You getting bent out of shape about a stupid joke is a metaphor for why you are stuck in neutral in your situation -- you get fixated on one thing and shut down. Life is beautiful man -- get off your butt and go for it! 3
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