summerlove Posted January 1, 2005 Posted January 1, 2005 what if you have no one now that you broke it off with your ex.? i mean i have no one and i'm only 19, NO one to even call on new years! What does one do then?huh? except cry!
missopinionated Posted January 1, 2005 Posted January 1, 2005 Don't you have a family? Call home! 19? You're going to be fine. Certainly this sucks for now, but you are not alone, although you might choose to see it that way for the moment. Do your wallowing and grieving and then get on with it. Call a friend or call your mom or sister or someone in your family -- I know! Call a relative you haven't spoken to in a while! They'll be thrilled and you'll have a fun conversation.
XNemesisX Posted January 1, 2005 Posted January 1, 2005 I'm pretty much a loner myself... BUT you ALWAYS have SOMEONE. I talk to my 12 year old sister A LOT. I know that she's 10 years younger than me and still a child but she always makes me laugh when I'm down and will talk to me about my problems with my ex. She's very mature for her age, though. Just last night she stayed up and talked to me on the phone til 5 am because I was upset and before that was online on instant messenger and sent me a sweet e-card to cheer me up. People come and go, but your family is always there. Give a family member a ring.
Weird Posted January 1, 2005 Posted January 1, 2005 Not having a romantic person in your life does not mean the end of the world. You were born into the world without that person and spent many years not with soemone so you can function without them. It is easy after you have spent time beng single again. XY32Nemesis, Hey if you ever need someone else to talk to you can always PM me or IM me. I'll chat with you, and try my best to cheer you up.
NiCoLe20 Posted January 4, 2005 Posted January 4, 2005 i had that feeling too .. but i just contacted old friends a re-united... im happy i did this
beejsea2 Posted January 4, 2005 Posted January 4, 2005 I know it was hard going through the Holidays after a break-up. My bday was New Year's Eve and my ex always made them special. My friends knowing that I would probably be down stepped up to the plate a wonderful cake, gifts and a great dinner. Sure I felt sad over the Holidays but I had to keep moving on!! I've come to far to let someone ruin my Holidays. You're young!! Like I told a friend "I'm letting go of 2004 and I'm embracing 2005 as the year for ME!"
MissingHerBadGuest Posted January 4, 2005 Posted January 4, 2005 Originally posted by bfaith258 what if you have no one now that you broke it off with your ex.? i mean i have no one and i'm only 19, NO one to even call on new years! What does one do then?huh? except cry! Believe me, that happens to the best of us. I guess you could think of it as shedding our skin. As all the other people taught me on here, things will change. New people will come into your life and you will re-build. It's especially hard though through the Christmas season. If it makes you feel better, I to was pretty lonely through the season. I found though, if looking for friends and new relationships, as cheezy as it sounds, go online to one of those dating sites (date.com or Lavalife). Check it out, because there are people just like you and me on there. I went there looking for a new gf ... lol ... but I actually came out meeting some really interesting people. I dunno, it's just a suggestion. Try not to think about things too much, because you WILL drive yourself crazy like I did.
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