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Got Rejected for not being a virgin...


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Yeah, none of this never happened. I believed it up to the "close your legs" comment. The only question here is why people come here to write fantasy stories, lie to people and waste their time. 6 posts, new member, color me unsurprised.

 

People want attention. The problem is that the extreme things that I tend to be suspicious of still aren't very far off from what I've really seen happen (I grew up in the Deep South...) There's 6 billion people on this planet and odds are that someone really is that screwed up.

 

I share your skepticism but I also hate the idea that someone might come here really being earnest only to be mocked. It's one of those cases where I don't mind erroring on the side of kindness, even if it means I get fooled now and again.

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That occurred to me also. These "new" members suddenly posting several threads about their past being judged. People have a right to know who they are getting involved in a relationship with, and what their past was. And a person has a right not to disclose if they don't wish to.

 

And for those making Bible references, I suggest you consider the entire Bible as God's word, not just a few statements in the New Testament.

 

The Bible provides that, as Christians, we are supposed to choose a spouse wisely, and choose one who is prudent, who exercises self control and good judgement. We are supposed to aspire to sexual purity. That is God's law, and if that is a value that a Christian holds in compliance with God's will, then he has a right to want his relationship partner to hold those same values. Why is this such a problem for some of you, that some people who value sexual purity desire to have a relationship partner who shares the same values? If you don't have those values, then there are certainly plenty of people who would share your view. Why expect people who do have those values to not have them? They are entitled to want a relationship partner who shares their values.

 

Assuming this thread is real, I don't think religion is the issue here.

 

He was being a judgemental dick. He's the worst kind of Christian. You don't make someone feel bad because they don't live up to your values. And you don't act like your values somehow magically make you a better person than everyone else.

 

Being a Christian doesn't give someone moral superiority (but don't tell them that!).

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Yeah, none of this never happened. I believed it up to the "close your legs" comment. The only question here is why people come here to write fantasy stories, lie to people and waste their time. 6 posts, new member, color me unsurprised.

 

I get the impression she was teeing it up so the pseudo intellectuals and anti religion crowd could light the morning sky with their pearls of wisdom.

 

Since the theme of the week is sexual history I guess we needed a new angle on the topic. Unfortunately its not really a new angle.

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I am a firm believer that if someone likes you they like you. Do you really want to be with someone who was going to be with you just because he thought you were a virgin, nothing more?

 

The day he falls head over heal for a girl it won't matter if she's been with 20 guys and from another/no religion.

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meh, move on.

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I am so pleased that this guy you went on a date with rejected you.

 

He is a terd and you don't need him in your life.

 

He just sped up the process for you (of getting him gone). How lucky for you! Bonus!

 

I spent 16 years with a terd.

 

You spend just a tad over 16 minutes (give or take) on a date with one and will never give him another minute of your life.

 

Lucky girl! :D

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True. I just wish I could find a guy who isn't so judgmental.
Was that guy even a virgin himself? If so then it might be a bit understandable but he could have said it in another way. If not, then he's a sick, pervert with madonna/sloot complex and deserves to be alone.

 

That's how it should be. If a guy is so much into wanting a virgin only, he better be one himself. Otherwise, he is nothing but trailer trash.

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