quotations Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 There is this guy I've been crushing on for a while who's in two of my lecture classes. We've talked a couple of times and he knows my name. We say hi when we see each other and I try to make conversation with him. I've noticed he is very shy but I find it kinda cute. I've been trying to build up the courage to ask him to hang out together and study or grab a bite to eat on campus, but just haven't done it yet because I'm so nervous and never found the right time to ask him. Recently I found out his name during class. We were in the same group and had to write down every group member's names on our worksheet. I searched him up on Facebook and have been deciding whether or not to add him. He knows my name, and I know his name. But I don't know if he knows that I know his name. Would he find it creepy if I added him? I want to add him, but I'm not sure if I should add him without it seeming creepy, since I don't know if he knows I know his name, but he knows my name. (Ha.)
truth_seeker Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 Do it like this: add him and other from your class, too. Then send a group message to everyone about needing notes or a question related to the class.
georgecostanza Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 He'll know that you dig him, but he probably won't find it creepy. A girl in work just did this to me and I instantly knew that she was crushing on me. He'll probably be flattered.
mortensorchid Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 At this point, it wouldn't be creepy if you added him. Hopefully it will all go down well after that.
ShyGuy5 Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 You are lucky. A girl can pull it off, but a guy can't
d0nnivain Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 Why would it be creepy? It's facebook. It's not like you'd actually be following him around campus. He also has the option to decline your friendship offer.
emva07 Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 I don't think it would be creepy. Facebook is notorious for friending people, accepting and not actually talking in person, lol. 1
Author quotations Posted December 4, 2013 Author Posted December 4, 2013 Thanks for your responses, guys. I wasn't sure at first because we've had several conversations together but never actually hung out. :/ I'm not sure if he might be interested Like when I see him passing by he won't make the first move to say hi. It's usually me that initiates it by saying hi to him and then he's willing to talk to me. And when we are on the same bus, he always avoids eye contact with me. I can't tell if it means he's just shy or it's his cool/reserved personality.
d0nnivain Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 Keep smiling & saying hi. See how it goes from there.
StanMusial Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 After you add him, make sure you set your status to "In a Relationship" with him. 1
freetolove Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 LMAO:laugh: I don't think it would be creepy. Facebook is notorious for friending people, accepting and not actually talking in person, lol.
elbe Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 Who doesn't like a friend request from a girl? I did delete my facebook.
nescafe1982 Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 If you're really concerned about it... you could just stick to IRL conversations before or after class. And after you talk a couple times, then add him. That said, I think you can plausibly add him for sake of "studying" together. If that's what the kids are calling these days.
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