RegretBreakup Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 (edited) My ex girlfriend contact me the other day and I ignore it. Feel bad about it but still I did it for myself cause it's all about me now. We been broken up for almost 2 months now. She already contacted me 3 times since the break up and from the look of her messages it feels like she wanted to hear from me badly and genuine misses me. I know my ex.. I know that she will not contact for ego boost but I know she is hurting that I'm ignoring her. She probably cry sometimes at night.. Anybody else feels bad Ignoring your ex? I mean sometimes it just feels so good and you gain some self esteem but sometimes you just really bad and it will hit you. Anyway my break up is not a bad break up that's why. I kinda ended it at first because of her being cold and distant. Then at the end she became the dumper and i became the dumpee.. I became a bit needy and clingy months before our break up though.. Anyway I will just respond if she says "I want you back" but I think she is not kind of a person who does that especially I ignored her 3 times now.. oh well anyway I should move on and if things are meant to be it will. Edited December 3, 2013 by RegretBreakup
kfey Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 Nope, I don't feel bad at all. Contacting her would be giving her the power. She doesn't deserve any of the power in our struggle. By staying NC, the power is in my hands. "Silence is the ultimate weapon of power" -Charles de Gaulle 1
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