ShyGuy5 Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 So I saw her in the parking lot so I started speed walking to get to the the crosswalk at the same time, but she was still ahead of me, so i sprinted across the crosswalks and managed to get in front, right before the building. Then I held the door for her going into the building. Next, while I was in front of her I just said did you take the extra credit survey? The problem is I didn't even look at her or introduce myself or anything. She said that she was going to do it in class. I tried to continue the conversation by saying that I hope it doesn't take too long (even tho i had already done it). She just said yeah and I tried one last at least it's worth extra points before taking my seat. I thought about going up to her and introducing myself after I got situated in class, but my heart was racing and I could barely talk because I was so nervous. Then I couldn't decide if I was going to introduce myself with a handshake or just words. This is exactly what I didn't want to happen when I thought about talking about something in class. I don't know where to take it from here. I didn't really get any signs from her, but I also wasn't really looking and lets be honest talking about class at 9 in the morning probably won't peak too many girl's interest. I tried, but this only skimmed the surface it wasn't enough to break the ice unfortunately. Any thoughts about what to do now.
Jame22 Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 (edited) To be honest, yes you did. Men do not sprint...never sprint. Unless Godzilla is chasing you do not sprint. always be cool, calm and collected. Move slow. And ALWAYS make eye contact. I don't know what kind of girl she is so you still might have a chance. But you have to loosen up. When you know you're about to run into her go into the bathroom (or someplace she can't see you) , practice some deep breathing and chill the f out. You sound awkward. You have to get out of your head! It dosen't matter, she dosen't matter. Just talk, look into her eyes and let words come out of your mouth. Do not take it seriously. Do not be logical...just talk. Edited December 3, 2013 by Jame22
Author ShyGuy5 Posted December 3, 2013 Author Posted December 3, 2013 To be honest, yes you did. Men do not sprint...never sprint. Unless Godzilla is chasing you do not sprint. always be cool, calm and collected. Move slow. And ALWAYS make eye contact. I don't know what kind of girl she is so you still might have a chance. But you have to loosen up. When you know you're about to run into her go into the bathroom (or someplace she can't see you) , practice some deep breathing and chill the f out. You sound awkward. You have to get out of your head! It dosen't matter, she dosen't matter. Just talk, look into her eyes and let words come out of your mouth. Do not take it seriously. Do not be logical...just talk. In my defense it was either sprint across the crosswalk or wait for the cars to pass until another caravan of people crossed. I am awkward. I don't know how to talk about anything other than school. I can't help it and hold myself together. Whenever I see someone that I like I go from an ice cube to water instantly. 1
todreaminblue Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 i dont think you spoiled it....if a guy sprinted i woudl get lost in the foot movement...watching perpetual motion love watching a guy run.....probably because i dont.....i dotn see how that spoiled anything.....try talking to her ...say hey nice day huh...open the conversation with something inane and build up you dont have to do it all at once and be the einstein of small talk........ ..lol...ahem.....goin to hospital soon so my posts will stop soon dontcha worry ...have a kick ass day ....sprint on...just add small talk....smilin......as you sprint past....that would be cool......deb
Jame22 Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 In my defense it was either sprint across the crosswalk or wait for the cars to pass until another caravan of people crossed. I am awkward. I don't know how to talk about anything other than school. I can't help it and hold myself together. Whenever I see someone that I like I go from an ice cube to water instantly. casual jogging to save a bunch of time is okay. But I don't think you should of tried to get in front of her.
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