Jules78 Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 Instead of crying, I laughed. He is so ridiculous. My friend told me he changed his status on FB to engaged to this woman he supposedly started a relationship with the same day we ended it. lol Seriously, I think I am getting over him really fast. I was a basketcase a couple weeks ago. 2
organizedchaos Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 Could also just be a joke status update.
barky2 Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 I lol at thread title. Sit back with a bag of popcorn. Barky 1
Peanut9330 Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 Instead of crying, I laughed. He is so ridiculous. My friend told me he changed his status on FB to engaged to this woman he supposedly started a relationship with the same day we ended it. lol Seriously, I think I am getting over him really fast. I was a basketcase a couple weeks ago. Ha!! That’s ridiculous my ex did the same but he cheated on me with that girl. We broke up he was married and bought a new house with her within 8 months. They stayed married for 4 years and he came home one day to find the house completely empty. Poof she was gone didn't even leave a note and that was like 6 months ago and he still has no idea where she went. He hasn't heard a peep from her had to file for divorce under abandonment.... And I know all this because after all this time he contacted me and tried getting back with me after 6 years of complete NC. 5
Author Jules78 Posted December 3, 2013 Author Posted December 3, 2013 Ha!! That’s ridiculous my ex did the same but he cheated on me with that girl. We broke up he was married and bought a new house with her within 8 months. They stayed married for 4 years and he came home one day to find the house completely empty. Poof she was gone didn't even leave a note and that was like 6 months ago and he still has no idea where she went. He hasn't heard a peep from her had to file for divorce under abandonment.... And I know all this because after all this time he contacted me and tried getting back with me after 6 years of complete NC. That doesn't surprise me. And I won't be surprised when this doesn't work out for my ex, Mr. I don't know how to be alone. He took her to his mom's for Thanksgiving and she has THREE kids under the age of 10. She has one other one in high school. Instant family. Good luck with that. 1
CaliBabe Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 Desparate much? You dodged a bullet Jules. 1
LostConfused123 Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 You seem to be taking this really well! Good for you I'm so glad it didn't have the opposite affect. 1
smuggy95 Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 Ha!! That’s ridiculous my ex did the same but he cheated on me with that girl. We broke up he was married and bought a new house with her within 8 months. They stayed married for 4 years and he came home one day to find the house completely empty. Poof she was gone didn't even leave a note and that was like 6 months ago and he still has no idea where she went. He hasn't heard a peep from her had to file for divorce under abandonment.... And I know all this because after all this time he contacted me and tried getting back with me after 6 years of complete NC. Sometimes the karma/end result is worth the long wait. Oh yes. /not advocating revenge, but it does give me warm fuzzies to see justice done.
MoooOinkBaaa Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 Ugh your ex was in a relationship well before he broke up. What a complete tool. I would hate to be in a rebound. I lolled hard at the thread title too. 1
Peanut9330 Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 Sometimes the karma/end result is worth the long wait. Oh yes. /not advocating revenge, but it does give me warm fuzzies to see justice done. He made these choices and now gets to live with the consequences. It's not my problem that he's hurt feels alone and betrayed, he wasn't thinking about me when he was out cheating on me. That doesn't surprise me. And I won't be surprised when this doesn't work out for my ex, Mr. I don't know how to be alone. He took her to his mom's for Thanksgiving and she has THREE kids under the age of 10. She has one other one in high school. Instant family. Good luck with that. That's my ex in a nutshell MR. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO BE ALONE!!! In fact that was his reason for cheating on me because he “felt so alone” I'm happy things went the way they did between me and him because I feel like I dodged a bullet.
Author Jules78 Posted December 3, 2013 Author Posted December 3, 2013 Ugh your ex was in a relationship well before he broke up. What a complete tool. I would hate to be in a rebound. I lolled hard at the thread title too. Nope, he really is that desperate. lol I broke up with him. I definitely think he was keeping his options open though and lined her up in case I didn't take him back. She can have him! 1
Author Jules78 Posted December 3, 2013 Author Posted December 3, 2013 That's my ex in a nutshell MR. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO BE ALONE!!! In fact that was his reason for cheating on me because he “felt so alone” I'm happy things went the way they did between me and him because I feel like I dodged a bullet. I feel the same way and each day has made it easier to see that. Phew! 1
Author Jules78 Posted December 3, 2013 Author Posted December 3, 2013 You seem to be taking this really well! Good for you I'm so glad it didn't have the opposite affect. I have to say that I have surprised myself. I have kept myself extrememly busy and have been going out with friends and having fun. I was obsessing for two solid weeks and wore myself out. I also think though that because he had betrayed me a couple times before he had chipped away at my feelings for him each time. This last time he betrayed me he tried really hard to get me back but I had lost a lot of feelings for him. I think the attachment/addiction (and of course the fact there was someone else already) is what made me suffer the way I let myself suffer. No more! 1
Meadowgreen Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 I'm so glad you saw the funny side of this (if it can even be described as funny, because if anything it's sad!) He is clearly a very mixed-up, codependent person who doesn't know his *** from a hole in the ground. She's very silly too if she's prepared to rush into this, knowing first hand what a trainwreck this guy clearly is. What a fantastically solid foundation they'be building their new life together on!
forgetmenot75 Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 What a jerk. I bet he was in a relationship before the break up. 1
Author Jules78 Posted December 3, 2013 Author Posted December 3, 2013 I'm so glad you saw the funny side of this (if it can even be described as funny, because if anything it's sad!) He is clearly a very mixed-up, codependent person who doesn't know his *** from a hole in the ground. She's very silly too if she's prepared to rush into this, knowing first hand what a trainwreck this guy clearly is. What a fantastically solid foundation they'be building their new life together on! I shed many, many tears. I have to laugh at how ridiculous it is. I know him very well and I know how he is so this doesn't surprise me. It is sad though.
MoooOinkBaaa Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 Nope, he really is that desperate. lol I broke up with him. I definitely think he was keeping his options open though and lined her up in case I didn't take him back. She can have him! Yeah for sure unless he just walked into a bar asked every girl out until one said yes, there is no way you can get a girl that fast. Hey will you be my girlfriend? Jules? 1
barky2 Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 Like I said, grab popcorn. Sure it's all lovey dovey now, honeymoon phase passes awfully quick I bet they haven't even farted near each other yet. So sad.... It truly is. Op you dodged a bullet, keep your head clear something better is coming down the pike I promise! Barky
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