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so im 20 & my fwb is 26 years old.. we've been in this arrangement for about 2 - 3 months now and we kinda had sex the night we met and became really good friends as well.

So now his friends are talking about us getting together, and how he likes me and i should marry him and he keeps telling me how much he misses me and that he cant seem to get the sex out of his mind.. he talks about we should be together.. i laugh it off cause i think its a joke i mean i dont know how i feel about him .. im not attatched as much as he is .. i try and avoid seeing him as much as i used to (4 times a week) now i see him like (3 times a month) his friends tell me how much he brags about our sex life and says that im the best his ever had.. i dont know what he wants if it were clear to me then i would be able to give him a clear responce .. because when i ask he says hes not sure but smiles alot .. and i get uneasy. and his saying that ive been playin games with him but im not .. i just distance myself till he figures it out for himself

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Does HE ever initiate instances when you might spend time together without his pressing for sex???

 

 

Guys love a 'sure thing'... but they don't have too much interest in being your friend, so you can probably get a better read on him based on his actions.

 

Just believe whatever you read in that case.

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Does HE ever initiate instances when you might spend time together without his pressing for sex???

 

 

Guys love a 'sure thing'... but they don't have too much interest in being your friend, so you can probably get a better read on him based on his actions.

 

Just believe whatever you read in that case.

 

he doesnt really try until we start kissing and stuff its my way of saying 'now' and he catches on real quick.

i ignore him alot and all the other girls are always all over him but he still wants me.

his way to close during sex, for example stare into my eyes, holding my head asking if i missed him calling me his girl :/

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Just seems like he's really into the sex. Bragging to his friends about how good the sex is as opposed to talking about how awesome you are as a person pretty much tells me what I need to know.

 

He is probably deciding if the sex is that good that he wants you all to himself exclusively or if he's gonna keep it casual and risk not seeing you as often.

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Just seems like he's really into the sex. Bragging to his friends about how good the sex is as opposed to talking about how awesome you are as a person pretty much tells me what I need to know.

 

He is probably deciding if the sex is that good that he wants you all to himself exclusively or if he's gonna keep it casual and risk not seeing you as often.

 

yeah i see your point but see i never bring it up (we should be together) he does :/ i spoke to him about it once and i freaked out and left to go home .. then he bought it up again and i freaked out and started ignoring him and then he asked why i wouldnt marry him ...

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