inkheart Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 (edited) Hi everyone, I am a girl, I'm 23. I'm very good-looking, I am highly intelligent, I consider myself an "alpha-girl", I know how to take charge and even though I'm shy, my confidence is moderate. (I'm a shy girl naturally) There is a guy I know for a year. Deep down, he wants something serious but will NEVER ADMIT IT. I know he does, I have heard from his friends and I have read his diaries (bad, i know. But i needed to know). He has trust issues and maybe something else, I don't know. I was willing to accommodate him, be with him despite his issues, work on it together, because i care about him deeply. This is the first guy i have ever cared so deeply about. More than my own blood. Honestly, which girl does that??? A guy with trust issues??? A girl would get so tired and eventually LEAVE HIM! No girl would stick around and no girl would help him thru his issues. I consider myself a strong girl..so of course i would. We all have bad moments anyway and it's good to cry. Back to this guy, he has feelings for me. For over 1 year. 1 damn year. And recently, i finally told him, I'm in love with him and I care about him. I told him in his face. When we first met, I was such a young girl. I was only 19. That's not even something i could think about doing at 19. He was my first kiss btw. I once went to the mall to meet up with him, because I texted him: " I need to tell you something important. 3 words!" I didnt come out. But here we are.... I finally had the guts. I'm proud of myself. Yet, this guy doesn't want to tell me anything, even though I KNOW. And to be honest, he WILL NEVER WANT TO GET SERIOUS! NEVER. EVER EVER ! So? What's up now? 1. Do i wait for him still? This time, there's a time-limit. Time is ticking! 1 year is enough. After that, I will never sink my teeth into his games again. 2. Do I just date other guys? Or meet them? if he comes, back, sure i might take him back if he comes back with....HONESTY. A beautiful word in the English language ! 3. If he told me his feelings, it COULD have changed something. Guess he'll never know by keeping his trap shut! This is how you start a relationship, in most cases What you got, guys? Also, don't tell me he doesn't have feelings. I know he does, that's not the issue. I just don't know HOW DEEP! Thanks Homeslices. Edited December 3, 2013 by inkheart
FitChick Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 He likes you, you are someone to pass the time with until he meets Miss Right.
Author inkheart Posted December 3, 2013 Author Posted December 3, 2013 Too bad. I wont be that option Kinda suspected this. Thanks.
NoMoreJerks Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 I just don't know HOW DEEP! Not deep enough to do anything about it. Sorry.
Author inkheart Posted December 3, 2013 Author Posted December 3, 2013 Thanks guys, i'm not angry. Just need answers I want this thread to die, no more replies please.
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