elbe Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 I know it's a generic question.. but if you don't really have a special someone in mind. Is there a sure fire way to get a girlfriend? This is assuming you are at least average looking and don't have any major ailments that might be holding you back... I am asking for myself but I know there are many guys in my spot looking for similar advice... [Please don't recommend online dating.]
Salvatore85 Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 You have to put yourself out there and not fear rejection. Really it's that simple.
d0nnivain Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 Step one is put yourself in situations where you will meet women. Step two is talk to these women to determine if you would like to spend more time with them. Step three is ask one on a date & be chivalrous, courtesous & interesting on that date. Repeat as often as needed until you find one you want to spend all of your free time with.
d0nnivain Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 step one. be attractive. if you fail step one, work on it. The premise of OPs Q was that he was at least average looking. I do suppose my answer assumes that the person in question practices good hygiene.
Leeway Harris Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 I would be careful of the impulse to just "get a girlfriend" without "having anyone special in mind". I would wait until you met someone you had genuine attraction to and felt some connection with, and then try to pursue something with that particular girl.
Disillusioned Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 One sure-fire way to get a girlfriend is to get rich. After you do it, tell me how so I can do it too!
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Ap22 Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 I'm a bit jaded right now so take what I say with a grain of salt..... 1. dont fear rejection. Its like sales...its a numbers game...you may get rejected here and there, but you'll hit too. 2. once you meet them, never chase them. Make them chase you. Dont call when you say you will, always keep them wondering, and always have the fear of them losing you. 3. Treat them like a queen when you are together. When you are away, treat them like they dont mean anything. They always say women always go for the bad guy and dont want the nice guy. Thats not true I think. The problem usually is the nice guy chases them and is always available. The bad guys dont chase and arent available. So in other words, read #2 again.
AnyaNova Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 I'm a bit jaded right now so take what I say with a grain of salt..... 1. dont fear rejection. Its like sales...its a numbers game...you may get rejected here and there, but you'll hit too. 2. once you meet them, never chase them. Make them chase you. Dont call when you say you will, always keep them wondering, and always have the fear of them losing you. 3. Treat them like a queen when you are together. When you are away, treat them like they dont mean anything. They always say women always go for the bad guy and dont want the nice guy. Thats not true I think. The problem usually is the nice guy chases them and is always available. The bad guys dont chase and arent available. So in other words, read #2 again. Follow this advice wih grave caution. A guy pulls this on me, doesn't call and doesn't call when he says he will and I don't exist when we're not together for him as much as I can tell? I assume he's not interested, I know he is not the sweet and attentive type I am looking for and he's gone because I'm moving on to someone who treats me well! 1
BOREDouttaMymind Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 I know it's a generic question.. but if you don't really have a special someone in mind. Is there a sure fire way to get a girlfriend? This is assuming you are at least average looking and don't have any major ailments that might be holding you back... I am asking for myself but I know there are many guys in my spot looking for similar advice... you don't have to be 'average looking' to find a gf. anyone can find a partner. theres 2 ways to get a gf. the wrong way, which is what most guys do, and the right way. the wrong way is to be a jerk, going off of that whole 'nice guys finish last' crap. they get girls, but for the wrong reasons. the right way is to just be yourself and wait. oh my! be yourself??? is that allowed in todays society?? yup. we're so brainwashed with how we 'should act', 'should look' and 'should do', that we no longer remember to how to be ourself. everyone has a strength. whats yours? is it being funny? any hobbies? when around girls, use your strengths. eventually, youll find a girl that says 'wow hes a funny guy' or 'wow, he knows what hes talking about' or 'wow hes cool'..and POOF... ..you have a gf.
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