forgetmenot75 Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 Yeah, basically, make yourself unavailable and make him/her feel you're "scarse". the principle of scarcity: when something is scarse, it's more desirable. However, if your ex never loved you, OR if he/she has fallen out of love and has found someone else with whom he/she is in love now I'd say: forget about it. you can make yourself scarse, unavailable, and keep no contact that they'll never contact you again. PLUS: second chances really suck. Better put your energies on someone new. Just saying 2
Author Cream Posted December 4, 2013 Author Posted December 4, 2013 Yeah, basically, make yourself unavailable and make him/her feel you're "scarse". the principle of scarcity: when something is scarse, it's more desirable. However, if your ex never loved you, OR if he/she has fallen out of love and has found someone else with whom he/she is in love now I'd say: forget about it. you can make yourself scarse, unavailable, and keep no contact that they'll never contact you again. PLUS: second chances really suck. Better put your energies on someone new. Just saying i wish i knew that before, i would always make myself available to her after the breakup. i would always jump at her first request. i never had a second chance, maybe it could be better than the first time with her.
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